The psychology behind the slower, softer life, and why we are seeing more people return to this
Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach
4.9 • 914 Ratings
🗓️ 21 May 2026
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
In a world where social media reigns supreme, it's easy to get caught up in the endless scroll and lose sight of what truly matters. But what if you could break free from the cycle of comparison and distraction, and find a sense of calm and clarity in a world that's increasingly chaotic?
This episode is all about the psychology of the slow life, where we're talking about moving away from addictive content and towards longer, more intentional forms of media. In this episode I talk about the benefits of stepping away from social media, including improved focus and attention, lower anxiety and stress, and a greater sense of presence and connection with the world around us.
I also go into the importance of being mindful of our attention and how it's being used, and how we can start to make changes to our social media habits to prioritize what's truly important to us. And of course some practical tips and advice for anyone looking to start their own journey towards a slower, more intentional life.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of social media and want to find a more balanced way of living, this episode is a must-listen. Join me over the next 30 days to explore the benefits of a slower pace of life, and discover how you can start to make changes to your own social media habits to focus on what truly matters.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, beautiful beans and welcome to the podcast episode of today. |
| 0:14.1 | So this episode is all about the psychology of the slow life. |
| 0:19.3 | Why is it that so many people are returning to the slow life? |
| 0:22.3 | What are the benefits? |
| 0:23.6 | And when I talk about slow life, I'm talking about moving away from this kind of |
| 0:27.8 | addictive content, moving from short form content more into longer form, intentional. |
| 0:34.2 | You know, when you absorb content, you're being more intentional with what it is. |
| 0:37.9 | You're absorbing. Maybe you're reading more intentional with what it is you're absorbing. |
| 0:42.4 | Maybe you're reading more blogs, you're listening to more long-form podcasts instead of the doom scrolling. What does that look like? What are the benefits of doing that? And is there a way |
| 0:48.5 | that you can do it in a balanced sense? So where you don't have to necessarily quit everything, and if there is a way |
| 0:57.3 | you can do it, how can you do it? So we're going to be discussing all of that. I'm also going to be |
| 1:00.4 | discussing the benefits of if you just did want to quit absolutely all the social media, whatever, |
| 1:04.6 | and what that could look like. And as I was going into a deep dive of this and why it is that we're going into this slower |
| 1:12.8 | soft life and how by doing that it actually doesn't take away from you still working hard |
| 1:17.6 | towards something and achieving a lot. It actually, ironically, makes you achieve so much more. |
| 1:24.0 | I'm going to talk about how it positively impacts your ability to regulate your emotions. |
| 1:28.2 | I'm going to be talking about what emotional regulation is, but not too in depth because I actually want to do a neuroscience of emotional regulation coming up soon so that I can do a deep dive into that. |
| 1:37.9 | But I also want to talk about the kind of how the needle in a way has gone a bit too far and we're seeing a bit of a correction |
| 1:47.4 | for the better among other things because when you look at like the landscape of technology |
| 1:53.4 | and media and social media and how it's affecting us as individuals you're seeing a lot of people |
| 1:57.9 | where it feels like it's gone too far and it's just getting out of hand things like like AI and all of that. And then you see this other group of people that are really taking back control in areas that they can in their life and they're feeling so much better for it. So the first thing I wanted to quickly talk about is very quickly, in a nutshell, what is what am I talking about when we say a regulated emotions, the ability to regulate your |
| 2:17.8 | emotions and a regulated nervous system? What I'm talking about here without getting into the crux |
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