All right, team, welcome back to the man talk show.

Connor Beaton here.

Today we're going to be talking about one of the most important psychological principles

that you as a man need to understand.

And it's a complex that I see so many men in our modern culture dealing with

is something that I dealt with in my past and that's something called the Madonna

Horr Complex or the Madonna or split. Now for the sake of this conversation obviously

some of you might not like the W word and hopefully YouTube and Spotify don't you know downvote this into oblivion because it's got

that word in it. But I'm not talking about an individual. I'm not talking about a sex worker. I am

talking about an archetype. So here the whore is an archetype. So we're going to talk about

this because this is one of the main reasons why men often cheat.

This split has happened inside of men that has caused them to unconsciously, and maybe you've

experienced this, put women into sort of two categories. One is this sort of archetype of this

beautiful, wonderful, pure, loving, kind, compassionate woman that you fall in love with, but

there seems to be something missing. You struggle to bring, you know, a certain part of your

sexual drive or energy towards her. You struggle to be assertive or have boundaries around her,

but she's sort of hyper pedestal. And on the other side is the archetype of the

whore. And that woman usually embodies or sort of engenders this archetype of a person or a

woman that you can bring the full expression of your sexuality to. It's sort of unbridled. You can

kind of express yourself however you want, do whatever you want.

But these women are often characterized by you not really having respect for them, you not really wanting to be in long-term relationships. There's not a lot of trust. You don't exactly feel safe

in that relationship with that woman. And so there's no commitment. You don't want to commit to

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