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The Primal Kitchen Podcast

The Pros and Cons of Comparing Yourself to Others

The Primal Kitchen Podcast

Mark Sisson & Morgan Zanotti

Fitness, Entrepreneur, Sisson, Parenting, Health, Wellness, Weightloss, Primal, Paleo, Nutrition, Health & Fitness

4.4717 Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2014

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

We need to be entirely honest – which also means mindful – about the motivation behind our comparisons to others. What are really looking at when we’re glancing around the gym during our rest periods? What’s really going through our heads when we head for the back row (or the front row) at a fitness class? What are we looking to see in other people? Are we information gathering – on techniques or ideas? Or are we looking for ammunition to use against ourselves to affirm rooted thinking – or for justifications to boost our egos?

(This Mark's Daily Apple article was written by Mark Sisson, and is narrated by Brock Armstrong)

 

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0:00.0

The following Mark's Daily Apple article was written by Marksissons and is narrated by Brock Armstrong.

0:14.6

The pros and cons of comparing yourself to others. After all these years, I still find it interesting how lessons

0:23.5

from my athlete days can pop up in other areas of life. In my competition era, for example,

0:30.5

one of the things that helped me continually better my performance was a well-honed, disciplined,

0:36.6

inner focus. In the deep reaches of a marathon,

0:40.6

I better be focused on myself. That doesn't mean I never had awareness of where other people

0:46.6

were in relation to me, although those moments happened too. It means I couldn't afford to spend

0:53.4

my energy outside of myself in those grueling hours.

0:57.9

In a game of mind over matter, you learn not to waste critical mental resources.

1:04.8

Focusing on others and getting diverted by comparison would have been one of those perilous mistakes.

1:13.3

Your race isn't about other people and where they are. It's about your training, your focus, your pacing, your state of mind.

1:20.2

Some folks can come up with a plan that they've developed over months but get thrown off course

1:25.5

by paying too much attention to other people's approach.

1:29.4

Suddenly they've expended more energy than they're used to in the beginning sections of a race,

1:34.5

and now they've lost touch with their rhythm. They struggle to recalibrate their pacing.

1:40.3

It's disorienting, and you can guess how unsuccessful.

1:45.1

Funny how the same principle can hold in many regards when it comes to success in life and health.

1:52.0

Undoubtedly, there's a time and place for comparison.

1:56.0

I've used it to my advantage in many endeavors.

1:59.2

The key I find is to be mindful of when you turn to comparison

2:02.6

and what you're looking to get from it. There's an important distinction to be made here,

2:08.1

first off, exercising or training, insert any health or life endeavor, with other people,

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