The Power of Pain, Narcissism, and Vulnerability | AMA Vol.6 with Dr. Mike Gervais
Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais
Dr. Michael Gervais
4.6 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2023
⏱️ 79 minutes
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Summary
There is power in your pain, but how do you use it? Is narcissism required to be successful? Why is vulnerability seen as a weakness?
This week, we’re really excited to share the sixth installment of our Ask Me Anything (AMA) series. It’s such a blast filming these and answering your questions.
On AMA #6, we dive into some very real topics like the power of pain as it ignites both purpose and growth, if narcissism is necessary for success, how underdogs make for good company, and why a simple question like “how are you?” helps us explore our relationship to our own authenticity.
For this AMA, I’m stoked to welcome back a dear friend of Finding Mastery’s — actor, improv artist, and host of his own podcast, O’Neil Cespedes. O’Neil dropped by to bring his curiosity and candor to a really awesome conversation.
It’s an incredible honor to answer the questions you’re all sending in, and they continue to lead us to some extremely rich and insightful places. As always, feel free to email info@findingmastery.net with feedback or any questions you may have for future AMAs.
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| 0:00.0 | If you want to live in the present moment more often, I would start with mindfulness. |
| 0:03.6 | Become intimately aware of how triggers influence your thoughts, |
| 0:09.4 | and how once you get on a thought train, it takes you down a path. Become great at understanding that. |
| 0:23.0 | Welcome back to another Ask Me Anything on Finding Mastery. Once again, |
| 0:27.6 | it's an incredible honor to answer the questions you're all sending in. |
| 0:31.3 | And I'm so stoked to welcome back a dear friend of the podcast for this AMA, |
| 0:35.6 | actor, improv artist, host of his own podcast, Three Black Guys on a Couch, |
| 0:40.9 | O'Neill, Céspedus. He's here to bring his curiosity and candor to this conversation. |
| 0:46.8 | Your thoughtful questions led us to some really important topics. We'll dive into the power |
| 0:52.5 | of pain as it ignites both purpose and growth. If narcissism is necessary for success, |
| 0:59.3 | how underdogs make for good company, and why a simple question like, how are you, |
| 1:05.3 | helps us to explore our relationship with our own authenticity. As always, |
| 1:10.6 | feel free to email us at info at findingmastery.net with feedback or any questions you have |
| 1:17.5 | or future AMAs. And if you're enjoying this podcast and haven't already, |
| 1:22.1 | just a quick reminder to hit the subscribe or follow button. And to drop us a review wherever |
| 1:27.3 | you're listening, it is the easiest and zero cost way to support the show. And with that, |
| 1:32.8 | let's jump right into the Mastery Lab with the ever insightful O'Neill Céspedus for another round |
| 1:38.7 | of Ask Me Anything. O'Neill is great to have you back. It's great to be back. Yeah. So I had |
| 1:44.7 | so much fun on the last one that it was like people were totally vibing on the way that we connected. |
| 1:51.0 | That's awesome. And so like, I thought we'd just take another run at it. But before I get started, |
| 1:55.8 | like, how you doing with your phone? I was afraid you were asking me that. And so I prepped a response |
| 2:02.8 | for you on the way over here. I'm doing well with my phone. Okay. There's a boundary here, |
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