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🗓️ 27 May 2025
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Most Christian leaders are taught to prioritize ministry first—leaving marriage, singleness, and sexuality in the shadows. But what if the loudest gospel we preach isn't from our pulpits, but from how we live out our deepest relationships?
In this powerful episode, Pete Scazzero uncovers a profound, often overlooked truth: your marriage (or singleness) is not a private matter—it’s a sign and wonder, a living revelation of God’s love to the world. Drawing from decades of ministry, his own marriage journey with Geri, and Scripture’s radical vision for union, Pete challenges leaders to flip the script.
This isn’t about managing your relationships. It’s about transforming your leadership from the inside out.
If you're married, make your spouse your first ambition. If you're single, live out your calling with the same intentionality. The church will never be whole until we lead out of healthy, loving, God-centered relationships.
Listen now—and join the revolution.
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0:00.0 | Hi, my name is Pete Gazzaro. |
0:05.7 | I want to welcome you today to the Emotionally Healthy Leader podcast. |
0:09.0 | It's really great to be with you. |
0:10.9 | Our title today is the power of leading from your marriage or singleness as a sign and wonder, part one. |
0:19.4 | The power of leading from your marriage or singleness as a sign and wonder, part one. The power of leading from your marriage or singleness as a sign |
0:23.8 | and wonder part one. The next podcast, we'll do a part two. Now, last week, Jerry and I did an event |
0:31.0 | for we call culture hub churches that are for lead pastors and their spouses, about 20 of them here in New York City. |
0:39.5 | And we dove deep into equipping marriages, into leading out of your marriage is a sign of |
0:45.2 | wonder. And it was just incredibly powerful. So I thought I would share with you some theology |
0:51.9 | of that around marriage. Then the next podcast, do singleness. |
0:55.8 | Now, I've written about this in the emotionally healthy leader book, A Chapter, |
0:59.7 | called Lead Out of Your Marriage or Singleness, and I want to encourage you to, you know, |
1:03.9 | pick up that chapter at some point. |
1:05.8 | And there's actually a free discussion guide that goes with it. |
1:08.8 | If you go to Emotionallyhealthy.org slash lead, you can get yourself that free discussion guide that goes with it. If you go to emotionally healthy.org slash lead, |
1:12.8 | you can get yourself that free discussion guys that goes with the emotionally healthy |
1:16.9 | leader book and that chapter on marriage and singleness. So I encourage you to pick it up. |
1:22.0 | You've got some videos that go with it and a nice little study guide for you, perhaps, and your team. |
1:27.6 | Now, the reason we do this and it it's so important, is because we're into transforming |
1:31.5 | ministry or church culture deeply out of which mission flows out into the world. |
1:36.5 | And so a deeply transformed culture of a ministry has a number of characteristics, things |
1:40.2 | like a slowdown spirituality, a deep beneath the surface discipleship, |
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