Hey, this is Drey.

Welcome to Potsy of the People.

And this week we have the news with me,

Brittany Clinton, Sam, as usual.

And then I'm joined by Nora McInerney,

who hosts the podcast, Terrible.

Thanks for asking.

The thing that I'm reminded of nearly every time

I do an interview is the way that we try to rank, suffering,

and how it is our natural inclination to try to fix it.

So the advice for this week is about apologies.

When we apologize, we acknowledge what we did that was either

received or experienced in a negative way.

But we do it in a way that is about our actions.

So I apologize to a friend this week in my first response

was going to be, apologize for how you received that.

And I'm apologize that you felt that way.

But that actually takes all the responsibility off of what I did

and actually puts a responsibility on the way

that they were approximate to what I did.

So what I said was I apologize for coming off as self-righteous.

And I apologize for not hearing you in the way

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