“The Postman Was on Her Fantasy List?!” — Is This Healthy or a Red Flag?
The Therapy Crouch
Therapy Crouch
4.7 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2025
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
On this week’s Ask Me Anything edition of The Therapy Crouch, Abbey and Peter tackle yet another chaotic mix of listener confessions, steamy dilemmas, and hilarious real-life stories. From fantasy celebrity lists gone wrong (including one very muscular postman), to relationship confessions about hotel getaways and the death of romance after kids, nothing is off-limits.
Ross reveals his holiday prep chaos ahead of his trip to Barbados, Peter explains the weirdest ad campaigns he’s ever done (including straddling a snooker table with Abbey in lingerie), and the pair get brutally honest about body confidence, low libido, and whether fantasy lists are harmless fun or total red flags
It’s equal parts therapy session, comedy hour, and marital debate — with the usual dose of Crouch–Clancy chaos.
00:00 – Intro chaos
02:20 – The stingray incident that left Abbey scarred for life
04:36 – Listener dilemma: The fantasy celebrity list gone wrong
07:40 – Are fantasy lists dangerous?
08:17 – Hotel room confessions — “packing half the bedroom!”
10:00 – Golf terminology guessing game disaster
14:00 – Homeopathic remedies & Abbey’s wellness obsession
16:20 – The weirdest ad jobs they’ve ever done
19:00 – Peter’s surreal BBC One moment with Wayne Rooney
21:10 – Confidence vs nerves — Abbey’s honesty on anxiety
22:00 – Soup wars: Mushroom vs Broccoli showdown
24:10 – Listener dilemma: Losing confidence after having kids
26:00 – Abbey’s take on post-baby body confidence & intimacy
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| 0:00.0 | This episode is brought to you by Deliveroo. |
| 0:02.1 | So Pete and I want to do something special. |
| 0:04.3 | Just the two of us. |
| 0:05.0 | So we've decided to have a little date night at home. Exactly. And of course, the perfect date night has to include food from our favourite local restaurant. There's just something about having that meal arrive at your door that makes the night feel like a real treat. That's so true. And while we're at it, I just spotted some lovely flowers |
| 0:22.1 | in a box of chockies on the app as well, |
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| 0:57.0 | This episode of The Therapy Crouch is brought you by Indeed. |
| 1:00.4 | Okay, Pete, I've got a question for you. |
| 1:02.2 | Who is the best boss you've ever had? |
| 1:05.2 | Oh, I've had some great ones, but my old favourite's Harry Rednapp. |
| 1:10.0 | Not me. |
| 2:01.9 | You're not my manager. Why is that? Why, Harry? He signed me three times. He must have thought I've been doing something, right? Well, obviously you were. You scored a hell of a lot of goals for him, but getting a job because you know the person doing the hiring. That happens all the time in football, doesn't it? Well, it's not like it's a normal job, is it? He wasn't looking through my CV and asking me if he thought I had any transferable skills that I could bring to the first team. But now you mention it, it does happen a lot, and manage it will know and trust his players and often bring them that in for that reason. Okay. Harry should do that a lot. Well, luckily it worked out well with you and Harry, but it happens everywhere, doesn't it? And not always with great results. I mean, when you put it like that, it doesn't sound great, does it? It should be what you know, not who you know. Well, thankfully, indeed does offer a better way. On your profile, you showcase real skills and experiences, |
| 2:07.7 | which also helps employers find people with the talent that fits both the role and their culture. |
| 2:12.9 | And people get recommended jobs that match their abilities, leveling the playing field. |
| 2:17.6 | So what skills do you think would be on your profile, P? Simple. Simple, yeah. |
| 2:21.9 | Well, I was going to tell you, |
| 2:24.2 | headers volume, podcasting, but you've just nailed it there, haven't you? |
| 2:24.4 | Okay. |
| 2:26.2 | To create your profile today, download the Indeed app. |
| 2:29.6 | And Pete, if you set up yours now, |
| 2:31.6 | you'll be all set for when Harry comes out of retirement |
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