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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

The Perfect Answer to “Why Are You Still Single?”

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 8 February 2016

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

It’s the question every single woman dreads. Even if the guy asking means it as a compliment (“How is it that someone great like you doesn’t have a boyfriend already?”) it’s still a loaded question and if you don’t answer it skilfully you could end up sending the wrong message that you’re desperate, jaded, or undesirable. In this episode of LOVE Life I’m giving you the exact words to say to communicate that you are high value, in demand, and any man would be lucky to win you as his girlfriend.

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0:00.0

Hello everyone, this is Love Life with Matthew Hussie. You know, we've all been hurt in relationships.

0:08.0

If we're not careful, we can end up shutting ourselves off completely to protect ourselves from more pain.

0:14.0

But that cheats us out of opportunities to find the love we really deserve.

0:18.0

So what should we do instead?

0:20.0

I want to come back to this at the end of the show.

0:23.0

But first, let's get into today's episode.

0:26.0

It is time to talk about annoying things that people say.

0:30.0

One of the annoying things that people say is, are you a single? Are you in a relationship?

0:36.0

And you go, I'm single. And they go, why?

0:39.0

Or, how come you're still single? I just don't get why you're still single.

0:43.0

And anytime someone says stuff like that, it's the least helpful thing anyone has ever said ever.

0:50.0

So what do you do when someone asks you the question, why you still single?

0:54.0

First, let's go through some bad answers to this question that people give.

0:58.0

First, well, I don't know. I mean, guys never approach me.

1:03.0

In other words, no one really wants me. But if you do, then that would be great.

1:10.0

Here's another one. Well, I just mineral pigs or mineral something.

1:16.0

Any type of generalization about men. Men are all something.

1:20.0

All that says is, you're someone with this huge chip on your shoulder about the opposite sex.

1:25.0

That doesn't help you. By the way, I know by this point, you're wondering what you should say.

1:29.0

Like Matt, just give me the one thing I should say. I'm going to get to it. Don't worry.

1:33.0

Be patient. Before I do that, let me give you a couple of the other terrible things that people say.

1:38.0

Well, all the guys I meet are just losers. This is another one.

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