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One of Spencer's long-term affairs was with a friend of Jennifer's,

and she found that especially hurtful.

He wrote about it to Jen.

To my memory, she was staring at me a lot at the bar. I'm sure I noticed and tried to dismiss it as just my imagination, but it continued.

I honestly have no idea how it started. I simply found times when you or her husband were both out of town.

When it was over with her, you can't imagine my relief.

That problem in my life was over.

I was so happy.

I'm Andre Gunning, and this is betrayal.

Episode 6, The Only One.

I don't know much about your relationship with this woman, but she was your friend, right?

Yeah. I mean, one of the reasons that I really wanted to talk to her is because she was a friend of mine. She knew us.

When Spence and I opened the bar, her and her husband started coming in as regulars. And so like a lot of people, we became friends with them.

When they got out for a night and had a babysitter, they'd go to dinner in town,

but come by the bar before or after and spend time with us.

So when I opened Spence's email and started scrolling through his photos, all of a sudden, her picture popped up. And to see somebody you know, provocatively in a photo and knowing that they sent it to your husband, I mean,

I was so angry, as you can imagine. I mean, I was with everybody, but I called her that night.

And it was probably 11, 11.30 at night, and I didn't care.

I went back to look through all the correspondence between them.

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