The One-Sided Relationship

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 27 December 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever found yourself in one-sided relationship where you are doing ALL the work? Where you are giving, and giving, and giving – and getting little to nothing in return? Why do you find yourself one-way relationships again, and again, and again? The simple answer is this: You attract the type of relationship you think you deserve. (Tweet it!) So how do you change that narrative? How do you start believing that you’re worth more? How do you block out the lies that tell you you’re not capable, able, deserving, or worthy? Why am I always in a one-sided relationship? On today’s episode, I talk to a woman who is struggling with one way relationships in every aspect of her life: from dating, to friendship. She finds that she is in a pattern of putting in all the effort, but getting nothing back in return. I also talk through the three types of relationships you need to have in your life, because learning to recognize which type of relationship you are in will let you know whether or not it’s time to WALK AWAY from a one sided relationship. Friends – this episode is SO JAM PACKED WITH AMAZING INFORMATION!!! Give this episode a quick listen, and then leave your 5-star rating and review on iTunes! It helps to get the word out and challenge others to move toward God’s best for relationships…because you always attract the type of relationship you believe you deserve! (Tweet it) Single, dating, or married this show has something for you. Tune in to today’s show to hear licensed counselor, Debra Fileta, as she answers her caller through this unscripted conversation in this podcast episode on the Love + Relationships Podcast. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: Learn to let go of the labels in Section 1 of, True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life Read some more about How To Deal With One Way Relationships in this TLD Article! Let go of the labels and cling to God’s truth about who you are in Christ. The Debra Fileta Counselors Network is taking new clients!! Book a session with one of our trained Christian counselors and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! BOOK A SESSION. DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written five books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season, Are You Really OK? and Married Sex. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Are you a smart booker or a silly booker?
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0:28.7	On the beach. Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline style show,
0:53.0	where people call in with all of their questions
0:55.8	about love, sex, dating, singleness, marriage, and mental and emotional health. I'm your host,
1:02.2	Deborah Faleta, and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted conversations where I
1:07.6	answer your questions in short, bite-sized, practical answers.
1:12.2	For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor, relationship expert,
1:17.2	an author of five books. I also run the popular relationship advice blog, TrueLovedates.com,
1:23.3	reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.
1:29.3	If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it by voice memo to
1:33.7	Debra at truelovedates.com or submit it on my podcast page, tru-lovedates.com slash love and relationships.
1:42.6	And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes.
1:46.3	Let's dig in to today's topic. Have you ever found yourself in a one-sided relationship where you
1:57.6	seem to be doing all the work and getting little to nothing in return?
2:03.7	How can you recognize a one-sided relationship?
2:07.7	Why is it that some people tend to attract one-sided relationships more than others?
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