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Dhru Purohit Show

The Number 1 Weight Loss Mistake Most People Make and How to Create Lasting Changes Without Looking at the Scale

Dhru Purohit Show

Dhru Purohit

Medicine, Health & Fitness, Alternative Health

4.73.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

This episode is brought to you by Branch Basics, iRestore, and Rula. Most people focus on quick fixes when it comes to losing weight, but lasting change takes more than just reducing the number on the scale. Today’s guest shares what it really takes to build sustainable habits and redefine your approach to health and fitness. Today on The Dhru Purohit Show, we’re revisiting one of our most talked-about moments with Adam Schafer. Adam shares the behaviors and motivations that drive long-term, sustainable change and how it all begins with a mindset shift around what fat loss should truly look like. He also dives into how unrealistic weight-loss goals can discourage real body composition change. Dhru and Adam discuss why it’s never too late to rethink your fitness goals and share personal experiences that highlight the power of improving overall metabolic health. Adam Schafer, an IFBB pro bodybuilder and founding member of Mind Pump Media, joins us today as a co-host of the popular Mind Pump podcast. He managed some of the largest fitness clubs in the Bay Area and, along the way, collected eight national certifications, as well as a pro card in bodybuilding. In this episode, Dhru and Adam dive into: Motivation to change behavior patterns for sustainable change (1:39) Mindfulness and mindset shifts that improve how you feel (7:38) Overcoming discouragement from unrealistic goals (09:45) Ginny MacColl, the Oldest American Ninja Warrior (18:04) How Adam trained his wife and what she discovered (21:27) Final thoughts and takeaways (25:21) Also mentioned: Full episode with Adam Schafer 10 Ways to Tackle Fat Loss Everyday Guide This episode is brought to you by Branch Basics, iRestore, and Rula. Right now, Branch Basics is offering 15% off the Premium Starter Kit; just go to branchbasics.com and use the coupon code DHRU. Make 2025 your cleanest, healthiest year yet with Branch Basics! Hair loss is frustrating. Give yourself the gift of hair confidence. For a limited time, my listeners get a huge discount on the iRestore Elite and irestore.com  with code DHRU.  Take the first step toward better mental health today. Head to Rula.com/DHRU to get quality care from someone who cares. Sign up for Dhru’s Try This Newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi everyone, Drew Prode here. In my conversations, I regularly hear a common scenario from so many

0:06.6

people I talk to. And that scenario is, hey, Drew, I feel like I'm doing everything right. I'm

0:11.6

cutting on calories, or at least I'm trying to focus on that. I'm working out like crazy,

0:16.0

maybe chasing the number on the scale, but they aren't seeing sustainable results. Can you relate?

0:22.6

If so, you're going to want to listen to today's featured moment from a past episode where I'm

0:28.2

sharing a portion of my conversation with Adam Schaefer, an IFB pro bodybuilder and founding

0:35.1

member of the Mind Pump Media team. Adam has managed some of the largest

0:39.5

fitness clubs in the Bay Area and along the way collected eight national certifications as well as a

0:45.2

pro card in bodybuilding. And on a conversation today from a past episode, Adam shares the truth behind

0:51.3

why most people fail to reach their goals and why shifting the focus

0:55.0

away from aesthetics and towards metabolic health, strength, and function leads to not only better

1:00.5

results, but results that last. We get into topics like the myth of faster fat loss, why cardio

1:06.7

isn't always your best fat loss tool, and how building muscle is the metabolic secret weapon

1:12.0

most people are missing. Adam also talks about how real success comes when we connect our health

1:17.7

habits to our sleep, energy, sex drive, mood, and focus and not just how we look in the mirror.

1:22.7

This conversation is packed with clarity, compassion, and practical takeaways that everyone can apply.

1:28.4

Let's listen in to this featured section from a past conversation with Adam Schaefer

1:32.9

from Mind Pump Media.

1:39.0

Most everybody comes in with aestheticals.

1:41.5

They're unhappy with the way they look or their doctor told them they're unhealthy or they're carrying all this extra body fat. And so most people come in, they're like, they want you to change the physical part of them. But the part that will keep them going for the rest of their life is teaching them how to attach it to all the other things that you're alluding to right now. So as my client, as I'm giving them the nutrition, I'm motivating to show up to the gym and stuff like that, what I don't want them to do is to be focused on the scale and the body fat percentage and the mirror. Those are things we use to measure if we're doing some of the right things. And I know you came to me for your goals. But what I really want to do with you, Drew, is I want to remind you of like how you felt after that workout. And how did you sleep last night? And how is your sex life going? And how's your skin feel? And how's your productivity at work? And how's your energy with your kids? If I'm a really good trainer, I'm helping you connect those dots. And I'm speaking to that more than I'm

2:37.3

speaking to your body fat percentage, your reflection in the mirror, and your scale. Yes, those are tools for me as a trainer to make sure I know I'm calibrating things and we're heading the right way or I need to make adjustments. So I'm using those things. But what I'm talking to you about on a daily basis is all those other things. Because that is what's going to keep you going forever. Because even if on the best train in the world, I get you to all the craziest goals you've ever seen. And once you achieve it, then what? Really hard to keep you going if, because then you just go like, okay, I've done it. I've already been the guy in the room cool I've already been the strongest guy in the room cool what now but if I've

3:13.0

done a really good job of along that journey making sure that you really make those connections

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