Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

So many want the promise, so many crave a contract, so many want a guarantee, but love is not property like it was in the

50s where your life revolved around building the perfect picket fence and

walking on eggshells.

Love is a space and in that space a belief is born. Around belief the action of love is wrapped like

arms and that action assuming it's healthy protects a space where the belief

continues to grow.

If you focus on the belief, the expansion, the possibilities, the greater

that comes from to whole people and the glue and growth today, not tomorrow, and less on the deal, the

agreement and all the what-ifs.

If you love with instead of at or around if you stay engaged in the here and now lock eyes and

hold faces gently and long enough to see deeper, past once passed.

If you refuse to play chess and just be the most honest version of yourself,

if you seek to be seen instead of wanted, you will create the space to believe, and as you feed and grow that space, the promise will be the fruit.

To love is to create the space to believe. Without it, love will bear no promise.

I like you have put the promise first.

I like you have grabbed before holding and I like you have lost.

I like you have loved with only my eyes. I like you exchange vows for security and a false permanence as a way to

control. And I like you have lost. We are visual creatures programmed by upbringing and

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