Welcome to Let it be easy with Susie Moore.

What is the most loving thing you can do for a person?

It's so easy, isn't it, to think like,

oh, it's, you know, take care of them, feed them, worry about them,

take care of all the things that's annoying in their life

on behalf of them so that they don't have to do anything.

Right, hey, I would love someone to do that for me. But I'm speaking about love on a deeper level. Like truly

think about it what is the most loving thing you can do for somebody else?

I have come to realize over the years what's true for me from my own experience,

from what I've observed in the world, and my gosh I wish that this were the thing

that we all came to when we thought how can we most deeply love another?

There is a quote from Atticus that I would like to read to you which illustrates it beautifully.

Watch carefully the magic that occurs when you give a person just enough

comfort to be themselves.

This moves me because I want you to think about for a moment the same way that I'm thinking

about it right now.

How we feel when someone lets us be ourselves entirely,

entirely. No airs, no graces, no awkwardness, no let me conceal that part of me, no, oh gosh, I have to agree with you on this topic or things are going to get dicey. How does it feel when you're with someone who lets you just utterly be yourself?

Think what you want, wear what you want, say what you want, allow yourself to be who you really are.

Heath and I went to a Banksy exhibition, Banksy the artist here in Miami a few months ago

and there was a piece of art in the gallery and he he spray painted. Most mothers will do anything for their children apart from let them be themselves

It's interesting because you know I even have this relationship with my mother where she has a very specific ideas on how I should live and how I should behave and what's right for me and I know her loving intention is so pure it's there.

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