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Bay Curious

The Minister of Loneliness, Aristotle And How To Make That Awesome Person Your Friend

Bay Curious

KQED

History, Society & Culture, Places & Travel

4.9999 Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2019

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Last year, Bay Curious received the question: “How do I make friends?” We tried reaching out to the question asker, but they never responded. However, surveys show many Americans often feel lonely, and a lot of those lonely people also feel socially isolated. Last episode we found tips for finding potential friends. This week we talk about how to make friend crushes closer, Aristotle’s ideas about friendship and the potential role of government in addressing social isolation. For a few tips on how to make friends closer check out the web post: Frustrated by Shallow Friendships? Here’s How to Deepen Them Reported by Carly Severn Bay Curious is made by Olivia Allen-Price, Jessica Placzek, Maggie Galloway, Robert Speight, Katie McMurran, Paul Lancour and Ryan Levi. Additional support from Julie Caine, Suzie Racho, Ethan Lindsey, Pat Yollin and David Weir. Theme music by Pat Mesiti-Miller. Ask us a question or sign up for our newsletter at BayCurious.org.

Transcript

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0:00.0

From K-QED. You're listening to Bay Curious. I'm Olivia Allen Price. This is the second episode in our two-part series on How to Make Friends. Last time we heard how to find potential friends and now

0:15.1

reporter Jessica Plachik is back to tell us how to make them closer. Support

0:20.3

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0:27.0

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0:33.5

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0:39.0

Hey Olivia! Hey, what's up?

0:41.0

So we're trying to make better friends, huh?

0:44.0

Yes, always, please tell me how.

0:46.0

Okay, well, to get that, I want to talk about the different kinds of friends we have because

0:50.2

for eons we've been grouping friends into different categories, and someone who's done a really

0:55.9

interesting job of that is Aristotle.

0:58.9

Aristotle, wow, okay, we're going there.

1:01.6

So he really made me rethink a lot of my relationships in the way

1:07.1

he categorized friends, which are in three groups, utility, pleasure, and the good.

1:15.0

Ooh, tell me more.

1:17.0

Friends of utility are people whose friendship makes life easier.

1:21.0

A lot of our coworkers probably fit into this category, but so might that

1:25.8

barista you're friendly with who might give you free coffee sometimes. Maybe the neighbor who

1:30.8

feeds your cat? Totally. or the bus driver who will slow the bus down when you're running to catch it.

1:37.0

The best bus drivers do that, yes.

1:39.0

The second group is Friends of pleasure.

1:42.5

These are friends that you have fun with

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