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Bay Curious

How To Find New Friends

Bay Curious

KQED

History, Society & Culture, Places & Travel

4.9999 Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2019

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

There isn’t a clear path on how to make close friends. Some people find making friends even harder than dating. They say with romantic relationships there’s at least some semblance of steps: You ask a person out, you go out again, maybe you keep going on dates, maybe one person isn’t feeling it and the relationship ends, or perhaps both people are feeling it, you talk and then make your relationship “official”. Last year, Bay Curious received the question: “How do I make friends?” We tried reaching out to the question asker, but they never responded. Surveys show many Americans often feel lonely, and a lot of those lonely people also feel socially isolated. To help our question asker, we’re going to start off with tips for finding potential friends, then next week we’ll talk about how to make them closer. Read the full web version: How To Find New Friends Reported by Jessica Placzek. Bay Curious is made by Olivia Allen-Price, Jessica Placzek, Robert Speight, Katie McMurran, Maggie Galloway and Paul Lancour. Additional support from Julie Caine, Suzie Racho, Ethan Lindsey, Pat Yollin and David Weir. Theme music by Pat Mesiti-Miller. Ask us a question or sign up for our newsletter at BayCurious.org.

Transcript

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0:00.0

from K-QED.

0:02.8

You're listening to Bay Curious.

0:05.2

I'm Jessica Plachek in for Olivia Allen Price.

0:08.0

We're starting this episode at the edge of Lake Merit.

0:12.0

We're in a bar for Taco Tuesday,

0:16.2

and about a dozen people are sitting around a long table.

0:19.8

At first glance, everyone has very little in common, different ages, jobs, backgrounds, and

0:25.2

zip codes, but they're all here looking for the same thing.

0:29.9

And it's not tacos.

0:31.7

Hi, I'm Archie. My name's Darcy. Hi I'm Archie.

0:33.0

My name's Darcy.

0:34.0

So my sister is the person that I'm the closest with

0:38.0

and she moved out of state to opposite side of the country.

0:42.0

So I don't go out as much as I used to. So I

0:44.7

graduated from school in 2017 and when I came back most of my friends moved

0:49.6

down with their lives. They got married and they're busy most of the time.

0:52.9

And so I haven't reached that point in my life

0:55.4

and have to find people who are at the same level as me.

0:58.0

Darcy and Archie are here for a meetup group

1:00.4

to make friends.

1:02.4

People here are trying to make new friends,

1:04.0

which is a little bit nicer because you know what they want.

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