The Mind Of an Abusive Person When You Finally Stop Caring
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 May 2026
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
The ultimate threat to an abusive or controlling person isn't your anger—it's your indifference. As long as you are angry, you are still emotionally invested in the struggle. But the moment you stop caring, the power dynamic changes entirely.In this Live stream, I am breaking down what happens when you reach the stage of total indifference. We discuss how a toxic person reacts when they can no longer get a rise out of you, why your lack of a reaction causes them to panic, and how to permanently lock in your peace of mind.Turn the notifications on, drop your questions in the chat, and let's get into the behavioral reality of taking your power back.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful folks today we're talking about indifference and how narcissistic abusive toxic people hate it when you no longer give them the energy when you no longer care about what they're doing about what they're talking about, what they're talking about, or how they're going |
| 0:22.5 | about doing it. |
| 0:24.7 | Of course, if you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. |
| 0:26.6 | I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist, and welcome to another episode of the narcissist co. |
| 0:30.6 | Let's get it. Welcome back, folks, welcome back, welcome back. Yes, indifference. When you no longer care,'all. We like on this channel we talk about a lot about narcissistic rage anger cutting people off going no contact all of that stuff. We talk a lot about it. But all of that stuff, no contact, anger, all that stuff. Like takes energy that takes a lot a lot of energy |
| 1:14.0 | that requires energy you got to put look to get something out you have to put something in |
| 1:18.8 | like the absolute end of the cycle with a narcissistic person in a narcissistic relationship |
| 1:26.1 | the absolute end of the cycle is not hate. |
| 1:31.2 | It ain't hate. |
| 1:32.5 | I know y'all think about it. |
| 1:33.3 | Like, Lee, it feel like hate. |
| 1:34.2 | It should be hate. |
| 1:35.2 | No, it's indifference. |
| 1:38.2 | It is. |
| 1:39.2 | Like, seriously, today, tomorrow, tonight, |
| 1:42.5 | we're going to go inside the mind of a narcissist, the mind of an abusive |
| 1:45.6 | person when they realize that you don't give a damn anymore. |
| 1:49.7 | When they realize you're not giving them any more energy. |
| 1:53.6 | And that, I'm just telling you, that really does suck. |
| 1:57.7 | I'm just keeping it look. |
| 1:58.6 | If I'm keeping hiding ready, I'm keeping hiding ready. |
| 2:01.6 | Almost nothing bothers a narcissist more than you're not caring. Because narcissistic people |
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