The Masculinity Modern Men Have Forgotten
ManTalks Podcast
Connor Beaton
4.8 • 591 Ratings
🗓️ 21 August 2025
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
I explore the character of Aragorn from The Lord of the Rings as a model of virtuous masculinity. I break down how he embodies the protector, the healer, and the humble king, and what that means for us as men today. Aragorn shows us how strength and gentleness, ambition and humility, can coexist—and why the world needs more of that balance right now.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Introduction
00:27 – The hands of the king
03:13 – The protector king
06:22 – The humility of power
08:24 – Strength with purpose
11:11 – Brotherhood and bonds
13:39 – Magnanimity and greatness
16:55 – Humility at the Black Gate
18:26 – Strong and gentle
19:23 – Redefining greatness
22:04 – Closing thoughts
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| 0:00.0 | All right, team, welcome back to the Man Talk Show. Today, we are going to be talking about |
| 0:10.6 | virtuous masculinity or mature masculinity through the lens of Aragon from Lord of the Rings. I've |
| 0:17.7 | been wanting to make this video for a long time. I will probably be doing |
| 0:21.6 | more like this. So if you enjoy it, make sure you subscribe. Make sure you like the video, man it forward |
| 0:26.5 | with somebody that might enjoy it as well, and share your thoughts and comments below. So let's begin. |
| 0:32.3 | The hands of the king are the hands of the healer. The hands of the king are the hands of a healer, |
| 0:40.2 | and so shall the rightful king be known. Now this one sentence is incredibly impactful. It might be |
| 0:49.2 | everything that kind of sums up the true archetype of the king. |
| 0:55.6 | And the king is the archetypal representation of the pinnacle of masculinity. |
| 1:03.1 | It is the ascension of masculinity that one can aim for. |
| 1:08.0 | And the archetype of the king is always, almost always, misunderstood, |
| 1:12.8 | misrepresented, hated, feared, disliked. But in mythology and in archetypal conversation, |
| 1:22.1 | the king, the true king is the embodiment of the healer, is the embodiment of the bringer together. |
| 1:30.0 | It's the embodiment of being able to bring order to the chaos. |
| 1:34.9 | So this line sort of sums up why Aragon isn't just one of the greatest leaders in fiction. |
| 1:41.2 | He's one of the greatest examples of masculinity that you will likely ever see, |
| 1:47.1 | especially in the context of fiction. And sometimes in order to understand our own psychology, |
| 1:55.1 | in order to understand what's happening culturally, we actually need to look to fiction or to myth to understand the larger and |
| 2:04.1 | broader cultural conversation. Because right now, if you look out at the culture and society, |
| 2:09.6 | you'll see that masculinity is pretty much on fire, you know, and not in a good way. The conversation |
| 2:16.4 | is largely poison. Half of the voices out there are |
| 2:20.2 | screaming for you to be hyper aggressive and get rich at all costs and, you know, don't care |
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