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This is quite a serious but yet modern day dilemma and I kind of looked and I thought,

oh, I don't know if you should touch this, but fuck it, I think we're bold enough to.

I'm going to go in it.

Hi, Susie, Christopher Frankie.

I'm a middle-aged binary trans women living and working in South West London.

I've been out about six months and consider myself to be blessed both by my circumstances

and my relative maturity.

I have a really supportive friendship group and a really supportive employer and aside from

all the shit that trans people in the UK need to go through, I consider myself lucky.

However, in the last couple of weeks, I have hit a bit of a stumble.

There's another nice, perfectly nice young man in my team in the office,

whose only real fault is speaking too quickly without thinking.

There have been quite a few cases of him dropping

his hymns and bros into conversation.

My instinct is to just ignore it,

but for the sake of my courage and my commitment

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