THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 5: This Is Where Fear Ends and LOVE-LED™ Leadership Begins
Your Virtual Upline Podcast
Bob Heilig
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 26 July 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
🎙THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT
A 5-part audio series for the leaders who can’t keep doing it the old way. This is your line in the sand, naming what’s breaking, what’s next, and how to build what lasts.
Here we are, the fifth and final episode of THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT series, and this is the one that brings it all home. Let me ask you something real. Do you secretly fear that the version of success you’ve been chasing was handed to you, not truly chosen by you? In this episode, I unmask the lie so many are living with but never say out loud: “I believe in myself… but only when it’s working.”
If you’re exhausted from the hustle that feels hollow, and the pressure that’s been posing as strength, this is your wake-up call. I’ll show you how to break free from the fear-led identity trap and step fully into LOVE-LED™ leadership. You’ll learn how to reclaim your voice, your values, and your vision without burning out in the process.
Like I’ve said throughout this journey, you’re not called to be a content creator. You’re called to be a LOVE-LED™ leader. And this series is your new foundation. I want you to mark this shift, to draw your own line in the sand. This is your return to the kind of leadership the world is waiting for. This is where fear ends and LOVE-LED™ leadership begins.
If this message has stirred something in you, share it. Share it with your team, your sideline, and the leaders you know who are quietly burning out. Thank you for taking this journey with me. And stay tuned, because this is just the beginning. We’re leading this shift in real time, one episode at a time.
Listen to Learn:
0:51 - Why your confidence might be fleeting and how focusing on external validation can trap you in a cycle of fear-led achievement
6:10 - The cost of growth and a better question to ask that challenges the notion that all growth is good growth
8:23 - What LOVE-LED™ growth is and the ways in which it is a new paradigm of leadership
10:12 - The 6 transformative steps that will move you from achiever to leader
15:17 - Why the world needs leaders right now who choose peace over pressure and authentic presence over constant performing
17:04 - The LOVE-LED™ Leader Declaration: Join the movement and declare your commitment to a new way of leading, rooted in purpose and belief
Make sure to listen to all of the other episodes in this series, below!
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 1: The System Is Breaking And You’re Not the Problem
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT | EPISODE 2: Why Content Alone Can’t Build the Business You Were Called to Lead
THE LOVE-LED™ SHIFT Starts Now | EPISODE 4: What LOVE-LED™ Leadership Actually Looks Like
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Bob here. |
| 0:02.5 | Welcome to the Your Virtual Upline podcast. |
| 0:12.3 | See, what you realize is you've been leading from fear, but you've been dressing it up as responsibility. |
| 0:17.2 | And if you admit that, it doesn't just shake your strategy. |
| 0:22.1 | It shakes your identity. |
| 0:23.7 | Because if the way that you've been growing isn't aligned anymore, what does that say about the leader that you've become? |
| 0:33.6 | So as we start off this fifth and final episode of the series, let's name the lie that no one is saying out loud that goes like this. |
| 0:45.8 | I believe in myself, but only when it's working. |
| 0:51.2 | See, what you've been calling belief might actually be something else. Dependency. |
| 0:59.9 | So think about it. You feel strong when the numbers are up and you feel confident when things |
| 1:06.4 | are going your way. You feel aligned when people are saying yes, but when things slow down and belief starts |
| 1:16.1 | to get quiet and the results no longer match your effort, that's when you start to question |
| 1:22.0 | everything. What am I doing wrong? Did I lose it? Am I still the leader that I used to be? Look, that's not belief. That is survival. And that's the |
| 1:33.7 | identity of the fear-led achiever. But it's not your fault. It's what the old system trained you to become. |
| 1:42.7 | But just because it's familiar, it doesn't mean it's your future, |
| 1:47.0 | because there's a new way to lead, a way that doesn't hinge on pressure and performance and you |
| 1:52.4 | having to constantly prove yourself, a way that will help you reclaim your voice, |
| 1:57.8 | your values, and your vision without burning out. And today, this is where fear ends |
| 2:05.0 | and love led leadership begins for you. So let's go. So I want to address something that's important. |
| 2:16.9 | Here's what no one tells you when you start, but every exhausted leader eventually discovers. |
| 2:25.0 | This is so important. |
| 2:26.8 | Fear-led achievers don't have belief. |
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