The Love Language that Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman, #592
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
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🗓️ 5 January 2026
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
What if knowing your loved one's love language isn't enough?
Kicking off this new year, Juli sits down with Dr. Gary Chapman to unpack how it is that we can know each other's love language and still feel disconnected.
Whether you're married, parenting, or navigating close friendships, this episode will challenge you to love more intentionally—and more effectively.
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| 0:00.0 | I've had many couples, Julie, through the years, come up to me and say, Dr. Chapman, we just want to share with you. |
| 0:09.0 | That book, The Five Love Languages, saved our marriage 20 years ago. |
| 0:14.0 | 20 years ago, we were at the point of giving up because we just felt like we had married the wrong person. |
| 0:19.0 | It wasn't working. We were too different. |
| 0:22.0 | And we read that book, and the lights came on. |
| 0:24.3 | And we took the quiz, and we learned each other's language, |
| 0:27.0 | and we started speaking it. |
| 0:28.7 | And it changed the whole emotional connection |
| 0:31.4 | that we had with each other. |
| 0:36.3 | Well, hey, friend, and happy new year. |
| 0:38.7 | Welcome to another year of Java with Julie. |
| 0:41.7 | I am your host, Dr. Julie Slattery, and this podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy, |
| 0:47.1 | which is a ministry helping people make sense of God and sexuality. |
| 0:51.4 | Now, you might remember a few months ago, we asked you all to fill out a survey just to let |
| 0:57.1 | us know what you'd like us to be talking about on job with Julie. |
| 1:00.3 | And we had almost 900 people fill out that survey, which is great because we got to |
| 1:06.3 | know you and about the things that you care most about. |
| 1:10.1 | And a lot of you said you want more content on how to build healthy relationships, |
| 1:15.4 | specifically how to build healthy relationships within marriage. |
| 1:19.1 | And so we are headed in that direction as we kick off the new year. |
| 1:22.7 | I am talking with one of my favorite guests on job with Julie. |
| 1:27.4 | You will be very familiar with him, Dr. Gary Chapman, who is, I am talking with one of my favorite guests on Job with Julie. |
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