Hey, it's your girl, Simply Shanika, and you are now listening to The Goddess Confessions. the goddess confessions. The level up is mental and this is something that we have to keep at the forefront of our minds at all times.

If you don't have control over your mind then how can you expect to have

control over your life? This is why mentally you have to be prepared for change and you have to be willing to

accept change and to let it flow. The most difficult part about becoming a better person and evolving is discipline.

Discipline in opening up your mind to accepting new beginnings,

because new beginnings is very scary.

It's scary because a lot of times we get so comfortable.

We get so comfortable where we are because comfort equals security for a lot of us and

security means safety. So all of those three things alone are very great and we should always feel like that.

But sometimes they can hinder us because we're comfortable in places that we've outgrown and we know we've outgrown those places but we

refuse to step outside of those comfort zones, to discipline ourselves, to become better,

so that we can achieve the things that we want in life, whatever that may be to you, it's different for everybody.

But if you're not prepared to step outside of your comfort zone,

then how do you expect to win in life?

Get comfortable with the fact that everybody isn't going to like you.

You know, I know this is difficult for a lot of people to accept because a lot of us want to be perfect and we want to be people pleasers but

everybody is not going to like us. That's just the fact and we have to learn to

stop worrying about those people.

And the way we do that is focusing more on ourselves

and focusing more on the people that are actually there supporting us.

Sometimes we give more energy to the negativity than we do the positivity.

And hey, we've all been a victim of that. I have. I will be the first to admit, okay?

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