What's interesting about fear and excuses is if you were

versing near them backward to the seat of where it's coming from, it means that a stunning

majority of the people in this audience are actually tied up in caring about somebody

else's point of view on them and I'm really fascinated by that. Fear is holding you back, you know

what you want to do. The only reason you're not doing is because you're scared of doing what you

actually want to do. So, would you scare that failing? Not failing, but still being at the same place

when my friends are at the next level. Huge mistake. You don't want the same thing your friends want.

So, do you care what they have? Number one mistake so many people make is they care about what other

people have. Not a lot of anybody has. If I have more, if I less, it doesn't matter. I worry about

myself. The fact that you're worrying about other people's accomplishments is already a losing formula.

You need to get rid of that first, then you can focus on yourself.

I would argue that well more than 50% of the people in this audience are here today because they

worry about the way they would be judged by one end or two family members in their inner

seven, eight people circle. If you're not feeling it, find new friends. I'm being dead serious about

this. This one is real big for me. Who you hang out with is a huge deal. And again, these are all

trying true things, right? We've heard the you're the whatever of the five friends you spent like,

that's real. Add one new winner friend. Like, you know what I mean? Add one new winner friend and

cut one loser friend. Like, yeah, I know he's been your boy since fourth grade, but he sits at

home and smokes weed in place 2k all day. Like, you can only love him so much.

And to me, that is the most fascinating thing that's happening as I'm going through my journey,

which is, oh, the reason I am capable and have the luxury of standing up here is that my parents

parented me in a way that gave me so much self esteem while respect.

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