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Good Moms Bad Choices

The Kids Are Fine!

Good Moms Bad Choices

The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Kids & Family, Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Parenting

4.9 β€’ 2.2K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 3 June 2026

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Summary

This week on Good Moms Bad Choices, Erica and Milah are talking mom guilt, summer pressure, and the realization that the kids are probably doing just fine.

As summer approaches and the kids invade the house 24/7, the Good Moms unpack the reality of modern motherhood: trying to create “core memories,” keep up with overachieving moms, manage work, relationships, and still remember to feed yourself (and maybe smoke a little weed in peace).

They get raw about comparison culture, over-scheduled childhoods, and how the shit we went through as kids quietly creeps into how we parent today. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough, this one’s for you.

You can also expect to hear

  • Why Erica says mom guilt is made up by the patriarchy
  • The pressure to create “magical summers” and core memories (and why that’s exhausting as hell)
  • How comparison culture, school moms, and social media are making parenting feel like a never-ending performance
  • Moms who are running themselves into the ground trying to do it all (STEM camps, activities, enrichment, all of it)
  • The radical idea that the kids are probably doing just fine
  • Bad Choice of the Week: Falling for yet another love-bombing white man.
  • Whorie Time: A threesome of chaos: Larry, his brother, and the broker — an intertwined hoe-tale you don’t see coming.

 

Tune in for a funny, honest, slightly high conversation about motherhood, mom guilt, summer expectations, race, dating, and giving yourself a lot more grace. Perfect for single moms, co-parents, conscious parents, gentle parents, and retired whores raising humans who just want to feel less alone.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is an I-Heart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:04.5

Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional housewife.

0:08.0

She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children in the man of the house, and of course,

0:12.5

she didn't talk back.

0:14.1

She was both obedient and soft by nature.

0:16.7

She was a good woman who always made good choices.

0:20.2

Shut that shit off.

0:21.9

We're good mom's bad choices.

0:23.1

Two single moms who said fuck the patriarchy,

0:25.4

shared all their bad choices,

0:26.6

and found out they weren't so bad after all.

0:28.4

We're experts, oversharers, and your new bestie.

0:31.0

Sit back and enjoy the ride.

0:32.4

I can do a bad all on my own.

0:35.9

You can't hold me back. I can do fat all on my own Because I'm Hold Me Back

0:38.0

I guess too fat all on my own

0:41.1

There ain't no turning back

0:43.2

Give me my flowers

0:44.7

I'm Erica

0:47.4

And I'm Mila

0:48.3

Happy hump day bitches

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