Stop Shaming Single Moms, Sarah
Good Moms Bad Choices
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 27 May 2026
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
This week, the Good Moms are calling BS on the internet’s obsession with shaming single moms.
Erica and Milah tap in about Dr. Sarah and all the “high value” think pieces that act like a woman’s worth is measured by how many kids she has and whether somebody’s calling her “wife.” They break down why that mindset is dangerous for Black single moms especially, how it keeps women stuck in trash relationships, and why your value has nothing to do with your relationship status.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why single moms are not the problem, no matter what the algorithm says
- The difference between holding your friends accountable and publicly clowning women for clicks
- How fear of being a “single mom” keeps people in relationships they should’ve left five years ago
- Real talk on baby daddies, boundaries, and loving yourself more than you love the potential
- Bad Choice of the Week: macro shrooms in the desert, calling for backup on kid pickup, and making a new plug friend
- Whorie Time: a sunrise threesome, one condom left, and two very enthusiastic cannabis kings
- Why “Don’t Be a Dumb Bitch” is less an insult and more a love note and lifestyle
Tune in for a raw, hilarious episode about calling out single‑mom shame, making “bad” choices that still lead to growth, and redefining your worth in love, sex, and motherhood.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:04.5 | Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional housewife. |
| 0:08.0 | She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children in the man of the house, and of course, |
| 0:12.5 | she didn't talk back. |
| 0:14.1 | She was both obedient and soft by nature. |
| 0:16.7 | She was a good woman who always made good choices. |
| 0:20.2 | Shut that shit off. |
| 0:21.8 | We're good moms bad choices. |
| 0:23.1 | Two single moms who said fuck the patriarchy. |
| 0:25.4 | Sheared all their bad choices. |
| 0:26.7 | And found out they weren't so bad after all. |
| 0:28.3 | We're experts, overshares, and your new bestie. |
| 0:31.0 | Sit back and enjoy the ride. |
| 0:32.9 | I can do bad all on my own. |
| 0:35.7 | Who can't hold me back? I can do fat all on my own And I'm Hold me back |
| 0:38.1 | I can't |
| 0:38.6 | Too fat all on my own |
| 0:41.1 | There ain't no turning back |
| 0:43.3 | Give me my flower |
| 0:44.3 | Welcome back |
| 0:45.9 | And I'm Mila |
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