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The Heart

The Intimacies

The Heart

Kaitlin Prest

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2015

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Once upon a time, we did an episode about what happens when there is too much going on sexually. The Ethical Slut says that love isn’t finite. Loving more than one person means having more love instead of less. This can be true. However, love is a complicated emotion. And sex can often be wrapped up in all these complicated and conflicting emotions. More isn’t always better.

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0:00.0

Dating is difficult for everyone, but it can be especially difficult when you're my mom.

0:04.7

I can't go 30 years looking for somebody.

0:08.2

She's 73 and is recently divorced after 42 years of marriage, but my mom loves love.

0:15.5

He kissed me. I felt like I was on cloud 999.

0:20.4

And she's determined to find the love of her life before her life is over,

0:24.2

so she dives into the online dating world. But online dating is not easy.

0:29.5

Men lie to her.

0:31.2

All of a sudden, he tells me, oh my gosh, I was robbed.

0:36.3

Men, don't call her back.

0:38.0

Why would a man who kissed you not call you right back?

0:41.6

Men break her heart.

0:43.6

And then he crawled me up and said, I don't want to see you anymore.

0:47.3

Luckily, she has me, her daughter.

0:49.8

Have you ever had a vibrator?

0:52.1

No. Oh my god, mom, you're going to, okay, I'm ordering you one.

0:56.3

Done.

0:58.0

And a few experts to guide her.

1:00.4

Make a decision that you're changing your belief.

1:03.6

And your new belief is, love is possible for me.

1:07.3

It's about discovery and experimenting.

1:11.2

If you let the relationship develop slowly over time,

1:14.3

then you can really see who someone is.

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