The intense pain, longing, and pining over the one who left
The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 21 September 2025
⏱️ 35 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:11.5 | One thing I notice as I get older is that my attention span is shorter. |
| 0:18.4 | I blame that on the internet. I blame it on so much coming at me at once. You could |
| 0:26.7 | probably relate. And so, you know, I used to take my phone with me everywhere I go and I kind of still |
| 0:33.8 | do. But there's one place I go now that I've decided to take a book. I decided |
| 0:40.4 | to start reading again. Doesn't mean I couldn't read or didn't read before, but I actually |
| 0:46.2 | replaced my bathroom material, if you need to know, with a book. Because in there with a phone looking at reels looking at all this |
| 0:57.6 | other stuff I realized it was it felt like it was rewiring my brain and so I'm reading now |
| 1:03.8 | I'm really enjoying it I'm enjoying the fiction I used to read the sci-fi all that, and I think it's helping me ground again. |
| 1:14.0 | I want my brain back. |
| 1:16.0 | I don't want it to be lost in all these different nodes of the internet in the universe. |
| 1:23.8 | And I don't want to lose my place when I'm in a conversation or even doing this show. |
| 1:30.4 | So I started reading again and I think that has helped me ground. |
| 1:34.9 | And why am I sharing this? |
| 1:36.7 | Because maybe somebody out there needs to hear it. |
| 1:40.1 | Maybe you're on your phone all the time and you need to hear it or maybe somebody that you care |
| 1:44.3 | about is 24-7 on their phone, laptop, tablet, and then listening to something and then always |
| 1:52.8 | occupying their mind. There is something to be said about deoccupying your mind, about |
| 1:59.4 | clearing it. And so as I've cleared it, as I've sat in nature without my phone, without distractions, |
| 2:07.6 | and as I've sat inside with a book, |
| 2:10.6 | but then I'll put on a video while I'm cooking or washing the dishes, |
| 2:15.6 | I found more balance. |
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