A lot of people have joined Heeled Being. It's the program that I run for emotionally abusive people who want to change.

And it's not because they're bad people, it's actually because they're good people who have poor coping mechanisms,

don't know how to regulate or control their emotional triggers,

and really want to stop hurting those they love.

If this is something that you think you may need, head over to healed being.com

and sign up for the free trial, healed being.com and sign up for the free trial healed being

dot com. Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that

are right for you so that you can create the life you want now.

Hey, this is Paul Kolyani and I'm here to help you learn to deal with difficult people.

Tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are and navigate through the problems.

Navigate through all the challenges we have in life and that's the thing I do every week.

I'm so glad you're here.

This show consists of my personal opinions

and is meant for informational purposes only.

Always take a professional for your mental health

and well-being.

And I'm just going to start right off and say to the person who wrote and said that her husband

cheated on her with a much, much older woman, I'm going to tell you this I'm not going to read her message

I'm not going to tell you what she wrote in the email I'm just going to say that

what she did say what I can share with you is that she wants to get past it.

She wants to get over it.

She wants to get past these feelings and these emotions and these thoughts that she's having.

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