The Idea Of Sex | Dr Marty Klein #671
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
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🗓️ 10 April 2024
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
In this conversation, Dr. Marty Klein joins me and discusses the importance of reframing the conversation around sex and challenging our ideas about sexuality.
We emphasize that sex is not just a behavior, but an idea, and that our ideas about sex shape our experiences. He highlights the need for individuals to have a sense of agency and the ability to shape their own sexual experiences.
We also address common conceptions people have about sex, such as the belief that it should be a continuous, seamless connection, and the exceptionalism around sexuality. He encourages a more realistic and accepting view of sexuality, where not every sexual encounter needs to be transcendent or perfect.
We also talk about how foreplay is about getting mentally and emotionally tuned into the sexual experience. It's important to leave behind the cares of the day and focus on the connection with your partner.
Plus, as we age, our bodies change, and it's important to adapt and explore new ways of pleasure.
Learn more about Dr Klein here - https://www.martyklein.com/
Takeaways
Sex is not just a behavior, but an idea that shapes our experiences.
It is important to challenge and examine our ideas about sexuality.
Having a sense of agency and the ability to shape our own sexual experiences is crucial.
Not every sexual encounter needs to be perfect or transcendent; a more realistic and accepting view of sexuality is needed. Foreplay is about mentally and emotionally preparing for sex.
Planning and scheduling sex can be beneficial for busy adults.
As we age, our bodies change, and it's important to adapt and explore new ways of pleasure.
Knowing what you want in sex is just as important as knowing what you don't want.
Sexuality is a local experience, not an express one.
Communication, experimentation, and understanding your own desires are key in a satisfying sexual experience.
Enjoy the show!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show and welcome to post-Eclips. |
| 0:05.0 | That was the coolest. |
| 0:08.0 | For everybody in the path, I hope you looked up and saw that full eclipse. |
| 0:12.0 | Having never been a part of seeing the full, a total eclipse. |
| 0:15.0 | A total eclipse where it truly is you just see the ring around the moon from the sun spectacular. |
| 0:25.0 | I'm totally... |
| 0:26.5 | I discounted it beforehand and now I am in awe. |
| 0:29.5 | Well I didn't have the expectation but man I'm gonna schedule some trips in the future in my life |
| 0:34.8 | around where's a total eclipse and I'm going. I totally see the craze I always thought |
| 0:41.2 | it was kind of hyped up too much but I totally see the craze. I always thought it was kind of hyped up too much but I totally see the |
| 0:43.6 | craze and that's kind of what we want to have happen here in marriage in life and |
| 0:48.6 | sex with the conversations that we can have to help see what it all can be because we have an idea but maybe |
| 0:55.4 | we don't really know what that is yet till we experience it. I think maybe that's |
| 0:59.4 | what keeps us coming back to wanting more and more of better sex, better connection, |
| 1:04.5 | better communication, whatever it may be because we've tasted it and we have this |
| 1:08.8 | ideal, but how do we get there? And a lot of it I think with Sexi Mary's radio is how you think about it, how you approach it, how you view it, which is kind of what we're doing today in today's episode, but it also is how do I just |
| 1:25.6 | start making moves towards that? And so if you're new to the show welcome |
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