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Emotional Badass

The HSP Brain and Holiday Loneliness

Emotional Badass

Nikki Eisenhauer

Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Loneliness during holidays gets weaponized by shame in highly sensitive people, turning togetherness expectations into daggers stabbing at your worth. That fullness of isolation doesn't mean you're alone - billions are yearning for connection just like you. The dangerous pattern happens when loneliness runs to your head and creates cutting stories: "You must be the only person alone on Christmas." Society has zero positive templates for loners, confusing solitude with dysfunction. The shift requires forcefully changing gears - actively looking for places you fit instead of cataloging everywhere you don't. Real connection might be two actions away. Affiliates and Sponsors: Brain FM Resources: PATTERNSCAPES DECK: https://getpatternscapes.com/ WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1: EmotionalBadass.com/coaching 30 Days to Peace Course EmotionalBadass.com/peace THE BI-WEEKLY WELLNESS NEWSLETTER EmotionalBadass.com/newsletter SUPPORT US ON PATREON Patreon.com/emotionalbadass Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

collectively and individually. We're inundated with imagery and have been our whole lives that the

0:07.7

holidays mean togetherness. People, family, laughter, hot cocoa, fireplaces. If this is the

0:15.7

sort of scene that we are experiencing in our lives, this is lovely and beautiful. This works so well to come

0:24.8

together and practice tradition and loving each other, celebrating together. This works great

0:31.7

when we have families and chosen families and friend groups who are reasonably safe and kind support systems.

0:38.6

But this expectation of togetherness can too easily be used like a dagger.

0:44.3

It can be picked up by shame in a highly sensitive person or a trauma survivor.

0:49.9

And our shame can plunge that dagger into our own highly sensitive hearts.

0:55.6

Hello, welcome to the show.

0:58.4

This is Emotional Badass, where Moxie meets Mindful.

1:01.9

I'm your host, Nikki Eisenhower, life coach and psychotherapist.

1:05.3

And on today's episode, I'm discussing how highly sensitive people can navigate loneliness through the holidays.

1:16.2

Before we dive into this topic about loneliness, y'all, I want to tell you that I'll be offering

1:21.1

some ways to meet me and work with me this year that are brand new. While I'm not ready to

1:26.7

release the details yet, I will be co-leading

1:29.2

at least one retreat this spring. If you are seriously interested in being a part of that,

1:35.8

come email us. Spots are very limited for this. So come email the team at production at

1:41.7

Emotionalbadas.com if you'd like more information on this.

1:46.4

The holidays highlight loneliness, y'all. They just do. And we're living through a loneliness

1:52.6

epidemic, not just in the state across the world. We have been sold this idea that technology

1:58.8

will increase our connection. And yet emotionally,

2:03.5

energetically, spiritually, we feel more lonely than ever. Here is a list I've compiled of random

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