The Hidden Cost of Success: Why Achievement Doesn’t Always Feel Fulfilling with Brooke Taylor (The Velvet)
Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson
iHeartPodcasts
4.5 • 927 Ratings
🗓️ 13 May 2026
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
Brooke Taylor is a former Google Marketing Lead and the author of Healing the Success Wound. In this episode, Kelly talks with Brooke about why so many high-achieving women still feel anxious, burnt out, restless, or stuck in the feeling of “never enough” — even after reaching major goals.
The conversation explores the difference between aligned ambition and ambition driven by pressure, fear, proving yourself, or tying self-worth to productivity. Brooke also breaks down how these patterns show up in relationships, dating, money, identity, burnout, and the nervous system, and why external success doesn’t always create internal fulfillment.
Kelly and Brooke also discuss the deeper emotional and spiritual side of achievement culture, what sustainable success actually feels like, and how to begin shifting out of survival mode without losing ambition altogether.
If achievement, productivity, or constantly chasing the next thing has ever left you feeling exhausted instead of fulfilled, this conversation will likely resonate deeply.
Brooke’s book Healing the Success Wound comes out May 26th. Pre-Order HERE!
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:15.2 | Brooke Taylor is a former Google marketing lead and the author of the new book, |
| 0:19.4 | Healing the Success Wound, |
| 0:21.3 | where she explores how high achieving women can align their ambition with fulfillment |
| 0:25.9 | instead of burnout. Brooke, thank you so much for being here. Thank you for having me. |
| 0:31.4 | Excited to talk to you. Well, I'm so excited to talk about this topic. This is one that my |
| 0:35.4 | listeners are fully aware would be very aligned for me. |
| 0:38.9 | I've definitely been through phases of burnout and just having a demanding job. I think a lot of women |
| 0:44.2 | can really relate to that. But I love this idea of success wounds. And they're being more to this, |
| 0:51.2 | by, you know, the backstory to the drive and the ambition that we're |
| 0:55.5 | seeing everyone live by. So let's just start with the basics. I just want to jump right in. |
| 0:59.4 | What is the success wound in simple terms? In simple terms, the success wound is the pain that |
| 1:05.5 | comes from mistaking success, productivity, and achievement for self-worth. It's the sneaking belief that our worthiness |
| 1:14.0 | of love and belonging is contingent upon what we produce and achieve and do rather than the |
| 1:19.9 | inherent goodness of who we are. And as an executive coach, I have had so many high-achieving |
| 1:25.4 | women come to me when I asked them the |
| 1:27.6 | question, like, what are the issues in your career as you see them? They'll name all the common |
| 1:32.7 | women's issues like burnout, low confidence, imposter syndrome, perfectionism. But actually what I |
| 1:39.6 | saw was that these kind of typical behaviors are actually symptoms of this deeper success wound, |
| 1:46.2 | of this habit of tying what we do to who we are. And we need to address that root cause in order |
| 1:52.5 | to see a change in our other ways of working. Why do you think so many high achieving women tie |
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