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Famous at Home

The Heart of Trauma: Part 3 of 4 with Bill Lokey

Famous at Home

Josh + Christi Straub

Parenting, Relationships, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.9653 Ratings

🗓️ 23 June 2020

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Bill Lokey joins Josh again for part 3 of our 4-part series on the Heart of Leadership. And this week we talk about something deep for each one of us: how trauma influences our heart, soul, and how we lead.



In this third episode on leadership and connection, Josh and Bill talk about: 



* Why we tend to feel like imposters* The definition of trauma and how it shows up in how we act toward others* The subtle traumas we may have never labeled as such* How trauma influences our relationships* Why we tend to medicate our trauma and what we use to medicate* The power of feelings in healing the pain from our past* Why it's so difficult for us to face shame and trauma as an adult* Practical ways to face our trauma and show up for those we lead



Show Notes: 



Bill and Josh together will be facilitating The Leader’s Heart Cohort beginning September 1. Seats are limited. To learn more about this holistic emotional / spiritual one-year journey, click here.

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0:00.0

If I medicate so much that I never know my heart, now it's getting in the way of my ability

0:06.6

to have intimate relationships, and it's getting in the way for me to really know my creative

0:12.9

self at work or whatever it is that I do professionally. So I've got to have my heart engaged.

0:21.0

You are listening to the famous at at Home podcast with Dr. Josh and Christy Straub.

0:26.8

Because when it's all said and done, we all want to know that we were famous at home.

0:33.9

Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast. We're here today in our little series that we're doing on leadership with Bill Loki and I have Bill with me here. Welcome, Bill.

0:42.8

Hey, thank you very much. It's great to be back. And we are navigating sleepless nights, but we're doing pretty good. You know, got the baby now in the house. And so for those of you who've

0:54.3

been praying for us and you would have heard last week, Christy, come on and just talk a little

0:58.4

bit about that in the intro. We've welcomed our third child. And so we're trying to be famous

1:03.7

at home here. I so remember that having three boys and going through, especially my second one that

1:10.0

had ear infections and staying awake

1:13.4

and rocking him for many, many hours.

1:16.1

So I'm with you there.

1:18.4

I'll tell you the thing that I have found, even with our first two, those middle of the night

1:23.0

moments where you're rocking them and trying to get him and go back to sleep. I just find it is the sweetest

1:29.3

moments with the Lord most of the time. Well, and there are sometimes worse.

1:34.7

They're like, oh my God, why aren't you helping me? Go back to sleep. But I do actually have some

1:40.3

really, really moments like that with with each of of my kids and up rocking them after a bad

1:46.3

dream or something like that and just holding them there, even though it's 2 o'clock in the morning

1:50.3

and you're like, I want to go back to bed. But there are those moments when it's just they snuggle

1:55.3

in and it's like, ah, this is, this is a memory. And I do remember remember those the good stuff yeah the good stuff even

2:01.8

though we're barely functioning with sleep but actually we're doing pretty well I'm I'm

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