The Hardest Part of Being a Dad: Letting Her Grow Up
Our American Stories
iHeartPodcasts
4.6 • 817 Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2026
⏱️ 8 minutes
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On this episode of Our American Stories, when Stephen Rusiniak became the father of a daughter, worry came with the job. When she grew into a high school gymnast, those worries took on a whole new shape. From the hospital delivery room to the balance beam, Rusiniak reflects on the quiet terror and deep pride of learning when a father must let go and simply watch from the stands.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.6 | Guaranteed human. |
| 0:19.1 | This is Lee Habib, and this is our American Stories, and we tell stories about everything here on this show, |
| 0:25.6 | from the arts to sports and from business to history. |
| 0:28.7 | And today we have on one of our regularly featured guests, and that's Stephen Rossiniak. |
| 0:34.2 | Many of his pieces have been published in the great chicken soup for the soul books. |
| 0:38.9 | This one he wrote during the time his daughter Tracy was a high school gymnast. Here's Stephen. |
| 0:46.1 | She didn't make a sound. You have a daughter, the doctor announced, before whispering something |
| 0:52.4 | else to the nurses. |
| 0:59.8 | His eyes silently spoke volumes as the O-R team quickly went back to work. |
| 1:04.0 | Not even a minute old, and already I felt such love for her. |
| 1:08.9 | And still, I was absolutely powerless to help my baby girl. |
| 1:12.3 | But I'm her daddy, I thought to myself. |
| 1:15.5 | I'm supposed to be able to protect her to keep her safe. |
| 1:21.7 | And still, all I could do was watch from the sidelines and do nothing. |
| 1:24.9 | It was out of my hands. |
| 1:33.3 | She came home from the hospital five days later, and for a while, I kept her safe, for as long as I could. |
| 1:37.2 | Until the time came, when I couldn't. |
| 1:42.8 | Destiny demanded that Tracy would one day become a gymnast. After all, she began practicing for the sport while still |
| 1:46.8 | sleeping in a crib. Twice, Karen and I found her roaming the house long after she and her stuffed |
| 1:53.7 | animal friends had been tucked in for the night. Determined to learn how this feat was being |
| 1:59.3 | accomplished, we waited and watched, and eventually we saw our not quite two-year-old scaling the sides of her crib with the amazing agility of Sir Edmund Hillary repelling Mount Everest. |
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