Melody, I guess what's coming to mind is, yeah, even with our conversation with Megan

and Ebenezer, one of the emphasis that we were making was we wanted to communicate dating

principles, wisdom, and just the process of what that is after 30

since we were saying that like, you know, a lot of purity messaging and wisdom is given for cats

in college. And it's like, no, if you're divorced, if you're widowed, if you're a single mom, if, like, it's just a different

wisdom you need for the season you're in.

In light of that, I'm thinking of men and women who feel like their options are getting

smaller because of their age, because of, like, it's just like, yeah,

I'm 47. I lost my husband last year. I'm 62. I'm 38 and I don't have children and the body is the body.

Right. How do you speak to that reality of feeling like maybe it's too late for me?

What you feel is very real, you know, I feel like it's too late.

I think the thing that helped me was God purposely is like you're not going to find

anyone until after 27. So I'm like, I'm going to be 28, you know, and now that's so young, right?

But in my time, that was like, where and when and how if I can't even date, right?

But I tell people like I literally had intentional prayer for my future husband.

I had prayed for him.

People say, how you find a CD in prayer?

I didn't find my mingle.com.

I found him in prayer. I don't find my mingle.com. I found them in prayer.

I don't have nothing against finding people online.

But so one is prayer, really getting into the presence of God and intentionally praying.

I think some people have stopped praying for a spouse because it hurts them.

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