When the sex falls away it can become a serious problem and the largest study done on the quality of sex with 70,000 people in 24 countries

Found the differences between people who say they have a great sex life and have an awful sex life has to do with really?

That's right.

Drs John and Julie Gutman are world-renowned psychologists and researchers who have studied over 40,000 couples, written over 50 books, and helped millions and

have studied over 40,000 couples, written over 50 books,

and helped millions of people find and stay in love for over 50 years.

People don't know how to have good relationships.

So I've got so many questions.

I'll start from the top. What are we getting wrong?

Well, first of all, most people are living under the myth that you have to be compatible with a partner, which is absolutely wrong.

And this is really interesting.

This t-shirts study where women smell t-shirts that have been worn by men for at least two days

and selected the ones they thought smell the best,

and they found that they were selecting the men that were most divergent from

them genetically rather than people who were like them because we're not really turned on by

her clone and there isn't a one looking for the one is a big mistake.

What about how do I become the most attractive version of me if I'm looking for a partner?

Yeah, that's a great question.

And this is what you do.

This is a difficult question to ask but have you ever seen cheating

help a relationship? Oh very very often really when there's recovery but can it be

treated 75% so far in our research.

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