Welcome to the Rhythms for Life podcast where each week we talk about resilient rhythms

that help you take charge of your mental, spiritual, physical, and relational health.

This season's conversations come from our best-selling book, The Fight for Us,

overcome what divides to build a marriage that thrives.

So grab your copy, invite your friends, and let's build healthy relationships together.

Thank you. copy, invite your friends, and let's build healthy relationships together.

Welcome back on Rebecca.

And I'm Gabe, and this is the fight for us season where we are talking about our marriages, relationships.

How do we keep strengthening them?

Thank you for all of you for even this first week, just jumping in, being a part of the

conversations, giving us your feedback, encouraging us as we continue to talk about ideas that

we know are really important to each of you.

Yes, and the book is in your hands tomorrow.

It's out this week.

So if you haven't ordered, order it today.

You get all the gifts, all the pre-order bonuses. And you can just jump in, jump in with this

conversation. This week, we're talking about our origin story, looking back to move forward.

So many people are like, why do we need to look back? Like, let's just leave that

where it is. I don't like looking back. I was kind of raised that we don't look back because that's

in the rearview mirror and then you just become a victim and you don't move forward. So it was always

easier to just pack it away and keep trying to move forward. But that didn't work so well in

our marriage. Yeah. As we've learned in psychology, a very popular phrase is if it's hysterical, it's historical. And I think for us,

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