Hello and welcome back to advice session a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on and I give you my unprofessional advice and today's topic is the forbidden crush. Okay, having a crush is already complicated enough,

but when you have a forbidden crush?

Wow, that is tough.

You know what a forbidden crush is?

It's a crush that you're not supposed to have.

We all get those every once in a while.

Today I'm going to be giving you advice on how to deal with the forbidden

crush.

Let's begin.

Somebody said, what to do if you have a crush on your friend's X.

Oh, no, God, okay.

Well, this is really tough, because on one hand, you can't control who you have feelings for right

like if you have a crush on someone you have a crush on someone if we could

control who we had a crush on life would be a whole lot fucking easier, right?

We wouldn't be stuck in three-year-long crushes

with someone who doesn't like us back,

but because we don't have control over it,

that shit happens to everyone, okay? So I think first you should recognize that you're not a

bad person for having a crush on your friend's ex. What determines your character is what you do about the situation.

So I encourage you not to feel guilty about the crush to start, right?

And actually that sort of applies to any forbidden crush.

You don't need to feel guilty about the crush itself because there's nothing you can do about it.

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