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The Overwhelmed Brain

The five words that will change your life

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 28 December 2025

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Sometimes all that's needed to enforce your boundaries in a situation or relationship is a simple phrase that changes everything. Otherwise, you could be stuck with what you got indefinitely.

Transcript

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0:00.0

These are my personal opinions.

0:01.8

Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

0:10.9

Welcome to the last episode of 2025.

0:14.9

And if you're listening to this after 2025, that comment doesn't matter.

0:20.9

This is an on-demand show podcast.

0:24.5

And I'm going to try my best to answer a bunch of questions in sort of a rapid fire method.

0:31.9

And one of the things I want to do first before I do that, because I'm not really capable of answering things rapid fire.

0:40.7

Usually I'm too verbose.

0:43.4

I will do my best.

0:44.6

I'll do my best this episode.

0:46.7

But before I begin, I want you to remember these words, probably the most important words for your well-being, for your mental health, to start the new year off right,

1:00.7

remember the words, that doesn't work for me.

1:05.8

When something happens in your life that doesn't work for you, say that, either out loud or to yourself,

1:17.3

yeah, that doesn't work for me. You can use this in so many places. It's a boundary. What you're

1:26.0

doing is expressing a boundary. Somebody yells at you at work.

1:30.3

Yeah, that's not going to work for me. Yeah, you play with the iterations here, but that's not going

1:35.5

to work for me. You can say it in your mind. You can say it all loud. Yeah, you yelling at me.

1:39.3

It's not going to work for me. That might not go well if somebody's yelling at you, but what you're doing is you are

1:47.3

taking a boundary that you have inside of you. Something that is either spoken or not is either

1:55.1

known or not, because sometimes we don't know our boundaries until something happens and you

2:00.4

realize, oh, that's a boundary.

2:02.8

And so that's not going to work for me.

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