The five words that will change your life
The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 28 December 2025
⏱️ 44 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | These are my personal opinions. |
| 0:01.8 | Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:10.9 | Welcome to the last episode of 2025. |
| 0:14.9 | And if you're listening to this after 2025, that comment doesn't matter. |
| 0:20.9 | This is an on-demand show podcast. |
| 0:24.5 | And I'm going to try my best to answer a bunch of questions in sort of a rapid fire method. |
| 0:31.9 | And one of the things I want to do first before I do that, because I'm not really capable of answering things rapid fire. |
| 0:40.7 | Usually I'm too verbose. |
| 0:43.4 | I will do my best. |
| 0:44.6 | I'll do my best this episode. |
| 0:46.7 | But before I begin, I want you to remember these words, probably the most important words for your well-being, for your mental health, to start the new year off right, |
| 1:00.7 | remember the words, that doesn't work for me. |
| 1:05.8 | When something happens in your life that doesn't work for you, say that, either out loud or to yourself, |
| 1:17.3 | yeah, that doesn't work for me. You can use this in so many places. It's a boundary. What you're |
| 1:26.0 | doing is expressing a boundary. Somebody yells at you at work. |
| 1:30.3 | Yeah, that's not going to work for me. Yeah, you play with the iterations here, but that's not going |
| 1:35.5 | to work for me. You can say it in your mind. You can say it all loud. Yeah, you yelling at me. |
| 1:39.3 | It's not going to work for me. That might not go well if somebody's yelling at you, but what you're doing is you are |
| 1:47.3 | taking a boundary that you have inside of you. Something that is either spoken or not is either |
| 1:55.1 | known or not, because sometimes we don't know our boundaries until something happens and you |
| 2:00.4 | realize, oh, that's a boundary. |
| 2:02.8 | And so that's not going to work for me. |
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