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Thanks For Asking

The First Stone: Cheating, shame and a series of unfortunate men

Thanks For Asking

Feelings & Co.

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Health & Fitness

4.713.5K Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! - Jenni was raised Mormon, and for the first part of her life, was a dutiful follower. She got married young, attended church, and was a loyal wife. But life got messy and complicated for Jenni, and she eventually made a choice that surprised her. A choice considered a sin in her culture, and a pretty hurtful thing to do by the rest of society: she cheated. For the last year, Jenni’s been grappling with the shame and guilt of this choice and how parts of her dating history led to this choice. — Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). Join us here. The episode transcript can be found here. — Find all our shows and our store at feelingsand.co. — Find TTFA on social: TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Um, how are you?

0:05.0

Most people answer that question with fine or good.

0:09.0

But obviously it's not always fine and it's usually not even that good.

0:15.0

This is a podcast that asks people to be honest about their pain.

0:21.0

To just be honest about how they really feel, about the hard parts of life.

0:30.0

And guess what?

0:32.2

It's complicated.

0:34.0

I'm Nora McNerney.

0:37.0

And this is terrible.

0:39.0

Thanks for asking.

0:45.0

There's a story in the Bible that might be familiar to some of you.

0:50.0

If you want to follow along, it's John Chapter 8, verse 3, but here's a summary.

0:57.0

The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery.

1:02.0

They made her stand before the group and said to brought in a woman caught in adultery.

1:02.9

They made her stand before the group and said to Jesus,

1:06.1

Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery.

1:10.0

She should be stoned according to laws.

1:13.3

And Jesus says,

1:15.2

Let any one of you who is without sin

1:18.4

be the first to throw a stone at her.

1:21.7

I'm telling you this, because terrible thanks for asking is now a Bible study.

1:27.0

Kidding? And also because this story is significant to today's guest.

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