Do you feel like you're suffering from the first date curse?

It's like you're walking around with a stamp on your forehead that says,

I hate men. Just ghost me. Please use me. I'm a lesbian.

Now, unless you have a tattoo on your face, then it is not a stamp. It's just adjusting your strategy and it's time for a change.

So here are seven proven ways to be a charming first date, so we have men begging you for that second date and many more.

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Hey there, Adam Littlejit from Love Strategies.com, where we help successful single women

get out there and attract long-lasting love and do it with a proven strategy.

In this video, we're going to be talking about having that feminine charm code on that first date.

Now, most people think that charm is something that you have or you don't have, and that's just not true.

Here's exactly how to do it.

Number one, build your sexy confidence.

This is all about giving yourself that peck talk before you go on that first date, getting into that mindset, because confidence ultimately is just an emotion. It's that feeling you get when you're like, I got it. Maybe you listen to something really positive, whether it's a podcast

or it's music. Maybe one of my favorites is listen to a comedian, getting myself that positive state

before a date or one of my favorite tips to getting into that confident mindset is to call

one of your best positive friends. Like that friend that you get on the phone with them and you know they're going to make you laugh and get you in that really good mood. I mean, back in the day when I was single, I used to get so nervous before a date. Like literally, I'd be shaking if it was a big date. And I would literally call the same exact friend. His name actually happens to be Adam as well. He's a really, really funny guy. And every time I call him, he'd have a funny story. It would just get me laughing. And it would help me get into that state. So I was radiating that type of confidence. And you can do the same exact thing. The next step is to just relax and just remove the pressure. Have you ever noticed that the harder you really tried to be super charming, the more awkward it can actually get?

So just remind yourself, before you go out and meet that guy, it's just a date.

He's probably more nervous about seeing you than you are of seeing him.

And let him be the one who's nervous.

Let him feel that pressure. I mean,

he's the guy. You're the woman. Let him impress you rather than you worrying about impressing him. I call this mindset outcome independence. Go on a date. Not worrying about the outcome. Is he going to like you? Are you going to be married? Are you going to be in a relationship? Are you going have children together, all that stuff.

Don't think about any of that stuff on the date.

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