The direct path to stronger bonds

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni

Therapy, Emotions, Sad, Health, Mental Health, Personal, Abuse, Anxiety, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Self-improvement, Mind, Stress, Emotional, Anger, Philosophy, Divorce, Psychology, Addiction, Happiness, Happy, Development, Thinking, Success, Education, Frustration, Sadness, Manipulation, Resistance, Brain, Depression, Overwhelm, Mental

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🗓️ 25 June 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Direct communication can save you a lot of time. But most people don't use it. Instead, they focus on what they can say to keep things "safe" and non-confrontational. But that tactic can sometimes lead to an unforeseen, unwanted outcome. Can honesty and transparency lead to stronger bonds even at the risk of the relationship?

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0:00.0	Healed Being is a program that I created that has saved relationships on the verge of collapse.
0:06.0	It's also revealed the damaged components of a relationship that are beyond repair. That can happen.
0:12.0	This program is for those who've discovered they are the common denominator for their relationship problems,
0:16.0	and would like to heal and change so that they can have the best relationship possible.
0:22.0	Sign up for the first four lessons for free over at HealedBeing.com
0:26.0	Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you so that you can create the life you want now.
0:46.0	Welcome to the show. My name is Paul Coliani and I'm here to help you learn to deal with difficult people
0:50.0	and tackle life's challenges without compromising who you are.
0:54.0	The show consists of my personal opinions and is meant for informational purposes only.
0:58.0	Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being.
1:02.0	Glad that you are here. I just returned from vacation just a quick personal note for anyone that has been listening a while.
1:10.0	You might be somewhat interested in this.
1:14.0	I used to call her my girlfriend and now I'm calling her my fiance and that's exciting to me. I'm very excited.
1:21.0	We've been dating for about eight years. Her name is Asha and I love her very much.
1:27.0	We're going to get married. Don't know when, don't know how that's going to happen yet.
1:31.0	But we were on vacation and I decided to ask her and it was a neat little thing that happened and she was excited too because eight years.
1:41.0	We both had strained marriages. I was the problem in my last marriage and in her last marriage he was the problem.
1:51.0	We all bring our own problems to the marriage so I'm not just saying it's all my fault and it's all his fault.
1:59.0	I'm just putting it out there that I definitely know that I was a problem.
2:04.0	In fact, if you've ever listened to my love and abuse podcast, that's why I talk about emotionally abusive relationships.
2:10.0	I talk about my past and who I used to be, how I used to behave.
2:15.0	And so I've destroyed almost all my relationships in my life because of who I used to be.
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