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Welcome everyone to today's episode of Shut Up for Second. My name's Cass and oh my God, guys, I think it's my birthday because all my friends are here. We got Sammy Peterson and Adam Carnar valet.

Notably, an episode Hayden's not around for. That's so curious. Yeah, happy birthday. Sorry to hear that Hayden if you're listening. Blurdy, that's brutal for Hayden right now. That was really sad. No, this is me fighting back because one time I described my group of friends that included Hayden as my best friends. And Hayden said, well, I'm your brother. That's a bit sad. And I said,

but if I had called you my brother, you would have said, why aren't you my friend? Oh, yeah. That's a double ed sword that one. That's hard to get. He accepted that there was no way for me to win in that. So if you have a sibling who you love very dearly as a friend, good luck to you. Oh, that's like I have a friend that always calls me just to chat and just kind of say,

that's lovely.

Actually, I'm just bragging now. very dearly as a friend. Good luck to you. Oh, that's like I have a friend that always calls me

just to chat and just kind of say, that's lovely. Actually, I'm just bragging now. That's the end of the story. No, I'm going to, I have a friend who calls me. That's a brag. No, but they always, anytime they call me, I reckon, maybe every couple of days. And they talk to me, they're going through a breakup at the moment and they talk to me and at one point in every

conversation they'll say, I've just got no one to talk to. Every, and it's like every second day. And I call them out on it every single time, Meg, if you're listening. And I call her out every single time. But she always says on the phone, I've just got no one to talk to.

And it's such a brutal thing to say to someone to go. Who's listening?

I know. That's insane. Is that a test? I've got no friends. And I'm like, I'm here every time. It's so funny. I think it's a great thing to say. I think it's quite funny to say. But she's not saying it in a funny way.

And I found that out by the amount of time she said it on the phone.

That is like, there. need to say. But she's not saying it in a funny way. And I found that out by the amount of

time she said it on the phone. That is like, is there a situation where you can say, I've got

no one to talk to, in which it is true? I think to a psychologist. Yeah, that's kind of,

but I guess you're paying someone to talk to. Unless I know, maybe that's just me going,

I don't consider a psychologist people. That's my brutal take. They're not a one. They're not a one. No. It's very weird, though, to say, I don't have anyone to talk to as you're like, it's even weird when I'm like sitting there and we're looking at each other square in the eye. And she said, I don't have anyone to talk to. Weird. It's a very diplomatic way of saying rude. Yeah, it's rude. It's rude. It sounds rude. I've definitely been in situations where I've had to explain to someone why I haven't spoken to them about something. And been like, it felt like I couldn't talk to anyone because, and then I have to list the reasons. And part of that is the fact that I've reflected on my life. And I wanted to improve my feelings and thoughts. Yeah, yeah. A friend had like a party a little while ago. Maybe this says a lot about my friendship group, but someone had, there was only two of us that rocked up to. He had really last minute drinks.

Yeah.

And he called me and he's like, oh, fuck, I'll finish work this week.

I'm really excited about it.

Would you come and everything?

And two of us came.

And he said to two of us, who was his best friends in the world, he goes, and no one came.

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