Christian dating advice is confusing. Okay, people say don't settle on one side of their mouth,

and then they say, oh, be open, be open, you know, they say, throw away your list. And then they say,

oh, but have high standards. You know, don't settle. Have high standards. They say, you know,

your person should feel like peace. It should be easy. And then they'll say love takes effort and

sacrifice. So today, as dating coaches, we have worked with so many Christian

singles, thousands of Christian singles, and we are here to help you debunk and figure out what is

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What is some of the common advice that you're challenging right now or saying, you know what,

not all advice is good advice.

So actually, I would say all the advice I just said is good advice, but it has to be tailored

to that specific person.

So for example, if I say to a lone wolf, don't settle, okay,

that is not the right advice for a lone wolf. That's actually bad advice because they already have,

they already have such high standards. They are already very strict. And so if I say don't settle,

they're like, great. I'm just not going to really

consider anybody because my standards are already so high. Yeah, it's kind of like if you have a

person who's severely underweight, what are you telling them? Well, you probably need to eat

twice as much as you're eating. Right. You can turn some ice cream. You just have to do one thing,

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