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Sad Boyz

The Dark Side Of Parasocial Relationships (w/ Miles Bonsignore)

Sad Boyz

Jarvis Johnson & Jordan Adika

Comedy, Society & Culture

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2026

⏱️ 113 minutes

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Head to https://cozyearth.com and use my code SADBOYZBOGO to get these pj’s for you and someone you love! Find Miles Find Ashleigh ⁠100+ bonus episodes⁠⁠ ✨⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠find us everywhere⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Write To Us ▸ sadboyzpod@gmail.com | Use Subject "Pen Palz" P.O. Box ▸ 3108 Glendale Blvd, Suite 540, Los Angeles, CA 90039 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Discord ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠▸ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Play Sad Boyz BINGO⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ▸ 🎬 CREW 🎬 Hosted by Jarvis Johnson and Jordan Adika Produced & Edited by Jacob Skoda Produced by Anastasia Vigo Thumbnail design by @yungmcskrt Outro music by @prod.typhoon & @ysoblank 00:00:00 Welcome, Miles Bonsignore! 00:03:08 Expedition 33 00:07:23 Work/Life Balance 00:09:17 Sponsored by Cozy Earth 00:10:52 Actor Press Junkets 00:13:43 Parasocial Nature of "Perfect Person" 00:24:07 State of the Hot Dog 00:25:56 Heated Rivalry Stalking, Harrassment, and Threats 00:36:02 Milk 00:40:36 Supriya Ganesh on The Pitt 00:46:16 Seeing A Celebrity IRL 00:51:16 Mile's Series: "Graveyard Shift" 00:54:29 Finding Joy amongst Tragedy 01:06:30 Feelings Are Not A Meritocracy 01:10:37 SF Chronicle Review of The Matrix 01:30:15 Sports Chat 01:49:42 Sad Boyz Nightz Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Sad Boys, a podcast about feelings and other things also. I'm Jarvis. I'm Jordan. And we're joined by a very special guest today. Hello. We call Miles. Thank you. Miles. Bonseigneur. Thank you so much. I don't know how to say your last name with a regular accent, so I pretend to be Italian every time. When I was growing up, I would say it was Bonseigneur. And then after doing the Dragos by guest, they would call me Miles Bonseigneur. which is how it is actually pronounced.

0:24.2

Sure.

0:24.4

And now I go is that. That is beautiful because not a lot of people think they can change it up later in life. And I did. Wow. And my wife actually said, I'll only take your name if it's the cool version. You've talked pretty extensively about how Italians have been oppressed more than anyone else in the nation.

0:39.7

And that's why he came one today. cool version. And you've talked pretty extensively about how Italians have been depressed more than anyone else in

0:39.7

the nation.

0:40.0

And that's why came one today.

0:41.2

Right.

0:41.7

To correct us.

0:43.9

Your guys is ignorance.

0:45.5

Pasta is a forbidden food.

0:47.9

Oh, no.

0:49.3

And a lot of people don't exist.

0:50.5

A lot of people don't think about that.

0:51.3

Right.

0:51.5

It's whenever I was eating spaghetti when you walked in and you said my culture is not your costume. Or the other way to have that. Yeah, yeah. You slapped it out of my hand. Um, Mamma Mia, brother. Here we go again, is what I said. And actually, Mama Mia, deeply offensive to me. Oh, fuck. Deeply. It's the M word. The devil M word. Flip it around. Momamea. Oh, wow. Don't play Mario. It's it. I don't want to get into it, but he's... Who? Yeah, you can't... That's the other M word. Uh, how many times did you just have to tank an incorrect Bonsignore? Honestly, I just sort of stopped carrying how people said it. That makes sense. And I introduced myself, I'd be Miles Bonsignore. But. Yeah, at Patreon, I stopped carrying when people will call me Jordan by accident. Because of this spelling. Yeah. Well, yeah. Sort of a difference. Yeah. There's something, I guess people were matching us up in some ambiguous way. Yeah, I can't really, I can't think of a thing. Yeah. Probably our hair. Miles, I have to thank you because, well, we have it in the shot. Our like little gear cabinet here. Husky? We stole the Husky idea from you. We recorded a perfect person and I was like, I need a husky in my life. And then I got a dipper and then I said I need another one. Yeah, you've got double.

2:01.0

Is that no, that's one giant husky. I was talking about my dog who's also a husky. You guys got the premium husky. I mean, a husky can really, it can, it can send you into a spiral. I love my husky. Jacob and Anastasia went to go pick it up one time and didn't realize how big it was. I didn't realize how big it was.

2:17.6

Colossal.

2:18.1

And we were like, oh, this doesn't fit in a car.

2:21.2

Honestly. one time and didn't realize how big it was. I didn't realize how big it was. Colossal. And we were like, oh, this doesn't fit in a car. Honestly, at this point, oh, sorry, you were about to say something. We got to Home Depot and the employee was like, you're not going to be able to take this home. They took one look at us and they were like, do you want to see how big it is? I mean, it is humongous.

2:34.6

But then we saw it was on a palette and we're like, oh, no, we won't be able to take this time.

2:39.0

Yeah, can you, can we hitch it to like, do you guys have a trailer we can attach this to?

2:43.4

You called me at the time and you said, please, please, Hercules, I need you to come and help me.

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