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Heal, Survive & Thrive!

The Controlling Narcissist

Heal, Survive & Thrive!

Stephanie Lyn

Education:self-improvement, Self-improvement, Education

4.9676 Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2024

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

A controlling narcissist is someone who uses manipulation, intimidation, and other power tactics to control those around them, often in relationships where they feel a sense of ownership. They may seek to undermine their partner’s confidence, isolate them from friends and family, and set rigid expectations. This behavior often stems from deep insecurity and a need to maintain a feeling of superiority, which they achieve by belittling or dismissing others’ feelings. Over time, the controlled person may feel emotionally drained, second-guess themselves, and experience a diminished sense of self, as narcissists tend to prioritize their own needs and ego above all else. In this week's episode, I want to help you recognize these patterns, something that is crucial in order to break free and rebuild one's confidence.   ABOUT STEPHANIE LYN  Stephanie is a Life Coach who will not only teach you the fundamentals of self-development, but she will also give you the tools to heal and overcome what you have been through in your life.  Her philosophy is that mental health does not have to be complicated. Her powerful messages have allowed her to coach people all around the world, creating a thriving coaching practice. Her online courses make it easy to learn what her private clients gain from her teachings to help you become both mentally and emotionally healthy.    ✨NEW Masterclass ✨ starting November 1st! Sign up 👇 https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/new-heal-and-rebuild-masterclass-signuppage   Private Coaching: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/CoachingServices Online Coures: https://www.stephanielynlifecoaching.com/Coaching-Courses    👉INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/stephanielyncoach 👉TIKTOK – https://www.tiktok.com/@stephanielyncoaching 👉FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/stephanielyncoaching   www.Stephanielynlifecoaching.com

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0:00.0

This is heal, survive, and thrive with your host Stephanie Lynn. This podcast is for anyone who has

0:06.8

ever gone through a painful gut-wrenching, breakup or divorce that wants to not only know how the hell to

0:13.3

heal from that mess, but also want the tools to be able to rebuild a life better than they

0:18.5

even had before. There are no victims here.

0:21.2

So if you want to hear the real truths about what you should and shouldn't be doing to move on and then stay tuned.

0:28.1

Hey, everyone.

0:29.2

Welcome back to the podcast today.

0:31.3

We're going to dive into a topic that so many people go through when they're dealing with narcissistic abuse.

0:38.6

I went through it as well,

0:46.2

but don't always know how to deal with it. I'm going to teach you from my mistakes, and I'm sure you've made the same ones, but it's how to basically handle a controlling narcissist, and all

0:50.5

narcissists are controlling. But this is when their controlling tendencies just really get elevated and they start triggering

0:58.7

you.

0:59.1

So you really have to understand in what ways does this person trigger you?

1:03.3

Do they trigger you by not playing fair, by doing being a little tip for tad?

1:09.5

Are they the things that they say say is it just like hurtful things

1:14.4

is it lack of accountability like what is it about this person that really starts to get you

1:20.3

triggered because this is going to help you and understand their controlling tendency like I said

1:25.9

all narcissists are controlling, but when they

1:28.0

really become on like a higher level of controlling, where it's like blatantly obvious, they're

1:34.9

going to do certain tactics because what they're experiencing is actually a lack of control.

1:42.2

So they're starting to feel as though they don't have control of the situation.

1:45.7

And they're going to kind of dig deep and find the things that really just sting or get a

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