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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

The Concrete Steps You NEED to take to Get Ahead In Life & Become UNBREAKABLE | Tom Bilyeu

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 31 December 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Click here to download your FREE guide to 100x YOUR EFFICIENCY IN 10 EASY STEPS: https://bit.ly/3F8qOJL

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On Today's Episode:

Life is brutally tough. You will be tested over and over with unexpected obstacles coming your way. You have to decide how you will respond. Will you give up and buckle under pressure? Or, will you build your mindset to withstand any challenge?

If you're ready to OWN your life and become unstoppable, this is the class for you to watch. What you're watching is a preview from one of my Workshops inside Impact Theory University - you can register and get free access to Part 2 at http://ownyourlife.impacttheory.com

If you’ve been perplexed on how Tom is able to go so hard day after day, week after week, you’ve come to the right place. Chasing after the wrong things, and not knowing what to value is leading you away from your goals. Being able to seek out your inadequacies and know where you are weakest, while pushing your boundaries is the only way to become unstoppable. If it’s unfathomable success you’re after, then it’s these basic principles that you’re going to need to reach the next level.

Build the Ultimate Value Stack
  1. Self Reliance - no one is coming to save you - be in control of your own life - hold yourself to a standard
  2. Self Respect - have integrity and know you can trust yourself
  3. Growth - being stagnant should bother you - push yourself and improve 4. Resilience - toughen the fuck up and don’t tolerate weakness in yourself
SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Become Unstoppable
1:12 | Unstoppable Redefined
4:40 | Stop Being Weak
9:29 | Take Extreme Ownership
15:38 | Create New Value System
19:57 | Build the Ultimate Value Stake
22:57 | Grit, Fear & Emotional Stability
26:26 | Master Stress, Discomfort & Failure
31:41 | Push Physical Boundaries
35:24 | Tom’s Challenge to You

QUOTES:
“Life is fucking hard. That is just a truth, but you have a choice, all of us have a choice, whether we're going to be weak, or we're going to be strong.” [1:35]

“The punchline to life is not success, it's not fame, it's not money, it's not accolades. It is very simple. It's brain chemistry, a.k.a. Fulfillment.” [4:01]

“I didn't believe that I could rise up, and because I didn't believe I could rise up, the only thing I could think about was tearing other people down.” [5:46]

“If you're blaming other people for the state of your life, you are fucked my friend, because you're pointing at the wrong person. You're looking in the wrong place.” [9:52]

“It is not just about doing what you're good at, it's about figuring out what do I need to get good at in order to achieve my goal.” [12:14]

“Decide what your values are going to be. Realize that they're malleable, and then build [...] the ultimate value stack for becoming unstoppable.” [19:57]

“When you know that you're acting weak, you've got to call yourself out, you've got to say I don't allow that in my life.” [22:19] “Stop asking how little you can get away with and start asking one of the most powerful questions in the universe, which is how much can you bear?” [31:54]

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What is up my friend Tom Billio here and I have a big question to ask you how would you rate your level of personal discipline on a scale of 1 to 10 if your answer is anything less than a 10 I've got something cool for you

0:10.6

and let me tell you right now discipline by its very nature means compelling yourself to do difficult things that are stressful

0:17.2

boring which is what kills most people are possibly scary or even painful now here is the thing achieving huge goals and stretching to reach your potential requires you to do those challenging stressful things

0:29.2

and to stick with them even when it gets boring and it will get boring building your levels of personal discipline is not easy but let me tell you it pays off

0:37.0

in fact I will tell you you're never going to achieve anything meaningful unless you develop discipline right I've just released a class from impact theory university called how to build ironclad discipline that teaches you the process of building yourself up in this area so that you can push yourself to do the hard things that greatness is going to require of you right click the link on the screen register for this class right now and let's get to

0:59.1

work I will see you inside this workshop and impact the university until then my friends be legendary these days it's nice to know what you're getting like the same when you took into a tasty breakfast the same when your kids stay any breakfast for free the same knowing there are over 800 hotels and the same every time you sink into one of our super comfy beds enjoy the same feeling whatever the trip

1:28.2

premier in rest easy only available to book at premier in dot com

1:33.2

the season sees apply up to two kids stay in the breakfast free with a full paying adult

1:40.2

what we're going to talk about today is how to build your mindset so that you really are unbreakable you really can't be stopped by the things that normally overwhelm people and shut them down and through this entire class we're going to break it into the things that are going to hold you back

1:54.2

why most people fail and the exact things you need to do to get ahead if you don't know my name is Tom bill you I'm the co founder of impact theory and the co founder of billion dollar company quest nutrition and I myself the thing that I had to overcome in my life is exactly what we're going to learn in this class which is I started out emotionally weak I started out insecure afraid I am not a born entrepreneur I had to learn all of this stuff to the school of hard knocks at a time before the fucking internet it was a lot harder back then

2:23.2

Carol the Wack had not written her seminal book mindset and so I literally had to fall on my face over and over and over to figure this stuff out but I ultimately did figured out and I took myself from scrounging in my couch cushions to find enough change to

2:36.2

what gas in my car feeling like I was never going to be smart enough to succeed to building a company building multiple companies and creating the kind of emotional and financial success in my life that I'd always dreamed about

2:49.2

and what I want to do is walk you through the ultra concrete steps that I went through the changes that I had to make to truly become unstoppable so that's what this is all about now I want to define unstoppable it's a cool headline that led you this far but the notion for to really be usable we're going to have to pull it out of the ether and bring it right back down to life now here's the truth life is fucking hard that is just a truth but you have a choice all of us have a choice whether we're going to be weak

3:18.2

or we're going to be strong and one of the things that I had to learn in my life is that choice is mine it is nobody else's and that if I was going to make a choice to be strong that I was going to have to take complete ownership of my life I was going to have to hold myself to a standard and this may be the most important I couldn't tolerate weakness in my life

3:40.2

and look I'm not saying that hardships don't befall people I'm not even saying that some of you watching this the deck is stacked against you so viciously it is clearly not fair but I will ask this question and now what if life is inordinately stacked against you for whatever reason bad genetics bad parenting grow up in the wrong neighborhood

4:01.2

whatever the case may be for whatever reason the deck is stacked against you and now what what are you going to do about it the only thing that you can really do is get fucking strong toughen up carry whatever burden you have and show people that you can do anything you set your mind to but to do that you've got to take responsibility for becoming great and greatness is not some bullshit pie in the sky thing it's a set of fucking skills that let you climb up the competency hierarchy to actually get better to outperform people and to do with the ancient world

4:30.2

to do with the ancient Greeks called technique to build a set of skills that means something to you for whatever reason that you've worked your ass off to acquire that allow you to serve not only yourself but to serve other people

4:44.2

all right in life there are two ways to lose way number one is to be weak to lack grit to be emotionally unstable to be stubborn that's where a lot of people fall in their face they have these fucking ideas in their head and they're constantly looking for things to affirm that instead of doing what they need to do which is constantly looking for ways that you're wrong and once you start seeking out ways you're wrong because like I've gotten this far in life being wrong what happens if I stop being stubborn I start looking for ways that I can learn more that I can learn more

5:13.2

that I can get rid of old ideas that aren't working for me and really move forward and the thing that I think is probably the most foundational they have a fixed mindset now what does the fixed mindset it means that you believe your talent and intelligence are in born traits

5:28.2

you're born with it and that's it and life is about making the best of that and we're going to debunk the shit out of that the second way that things can go wrong is they're chasing the wrong thing

5:37.2

I'm telling you right now the punchline to life is not success it's not fame it's not money it's not accolades it is very simple it's brain chemistry aka fulfillment the only thing that really matters at the end of the day is how you feel about yourself when you are by yourself

5:55.2

and this class is really going to be about building in those things that make you feel confident and secure in who you are impervious to the slings and arrows that come from other people

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