Hey everybody, welcome to Merit and Martini's, I'm Adam, here, Danielle.

Hello, Paul Sprite. Sprite. Happy and peppy. You're more nervous about it a little bit, a little bit.

No, it's not good. It's been keeping you up at night. Um, I mean, yeah, for how long? Okay.

So it's funny. I went, I snooped on the Instagram page and the Instagram page, is that how you say the Instagram page? I don't know. It doesn't matter.

I was snooping on there. And ironically enough, wow, people know me, huh? They know both of us. Right. Exactly.

I thought that was kind of funny, but I was kind of like, oh, I have to go and like redo my answers now. You know, like I'm not predictable. And it's going to be like boring, because it's like, oh, of course, Adam, you know, no, I think that it's like, I know what you're, I don't know what you're runner up challenges are going to be, but I know what your ultimate challenge is going to be. I mean, it's a no brainer.

But yeah, there wasn't a lot of diversity in the, um, in the comments for what people think your challenge is going to be for me. Right.

All right. So do you want to kind of explain? I mean, not everybody watches Instagram. So watch his Instagram. Right. Well, it's a story. You watch the story. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. All right. I don't know. I don't know.

Um, so I've been wanting to do this for a while. Basically, I wanted to come up with sort of a challenge for each other, um, like an actionable challenge, rather than constantly just talking about things because talking about things is great. Obviously, but it would be nice to like actually walk the walk with some of the things that I know that we are frustrated with.

About each other or get frustrated with about each other. And so I thought it would be cool to do a 30 day challenge where we come up with something for the other person to do to work on in whatever ways will get the results that we're looking for.

Um, so I asked you and I came up with two runner-up challenges that like would have been, you know, good also. And then a final challenge, which will be what we'll do for the next 30 days, I guess, starting tomorrow, which is a Monday, which makes sense.

Well, everything starts on a Monday. My challenges. Well, no, it's Yumkipper. So, you know, it's a day of the day of atonement. That's perfect. Yes. It's supposed to rest. Well, unless that's my challenge.

Like I'm supposed to rest. Am I supposed to rest more? Is that my challenge? Yeah, you're supposed to atone.

And you should be atoning all day. No, it's a good idea because we can actually instead of just fighting about things and just here's my side and yours, your side, we're actually doing something about it. Yeah.

So yeah, hopefully. I think that it's good. I mean, it's 30 days, like, hopefully it will lead to us getting into a groove of doing things differently.

I think we'll both need to put a good amount of effort into what we're doing.

But also the timing is good. Look, we're a little more settled now. I know shit always hits the fan. We just did the waiting for the other shooter drop.

And I'm not saying that it's going to be smooth sailing from here on out. That's for damn sure.

But we're a little more settled in the house. All three kids are a little more settled in their schools. And I just think the timing is good.

And so yeah, so I feel like it's a it's a good time to do it.

So so you want to start with the runner up challenge.

We need one of those one of those guys that sit like it a boxing ring on the side and ring the bell.

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