Dave and I joke that we've mastered fighting in our marriage.

Yes, we have.

But what we've really learned is that stressful situations trigger different reactive coping styles in each of us, which can really harm relationships.

Oh, yeah.

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He knew the boundaries and even if it was a silly, playful slap, you know, it's still not appropriate.

So I'm so glad you told me that. You know, I'll make sure I'll talk to Mrs. So-and-so. And then what are some things you could say in the playground if he does that again? And he goes, yeah, I told him. You do not touch my penis. I said, well, there you go. I said, I'm so proud of you for using your voice in that way. We're recording today in a different place. We're in Dallas, Texas. You know, I say that really loud because everything's bigger in Texas. Am I right? You're right. We're at the NRB conference. Our guest literally told me to be quiet, so I'll be really quiet. And just because someone told me to be quiet.

Trying to follow the rules. Yeah, we've already been yelled at.

I've already been yelled out.

Is it wrong that it makes me want to be louder? What is it about me? Is that sinful part of me? I'm sorry, it's right there. I love that. It's right there. No, you don't. I do. You do not.

I love being rebellious sometimes.

Today's going to be fun.

Yeah.

Because we're going to have talk about...

Fun?

Is that the right word?

Fun. I love being rebellious sometimes. Today's going to be fun because we're going to have talk about...

Fun, is that the right word?

Fun?

It's going to be fun because I really like these two.

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