The Big Porn Debate (3 Experts Debate): The Unseen Dangers Of Nofap, The Adult Industry Is Exploiting Our Brains, How Porn Will Change Your Brain!

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.6 • 13.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2024

⏱️ 146 minutes

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Porn. Harmless adult fun or corrupting the next generation of men? 3 guests, 1 dividing topic, no perspective is off limits The Diary Of A CEO’s first ever panel discussion is joined by three world-leading experts: Dr Alok Kanojia, Dr Rena D Malik, and Erika Lust. Dr Alok Kanojia is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and President and Co-Founder of Healthy Gamer. Dr Rena D Malik is a Urologist and Sexual Health Expert. Erika Lust is an erotic film director, screenwriter and producer, and the founder of Erika Lust Films. In this conversation, the panel and Steven discuss topics such as, the link between porn and relationship failure, how porn rewires your brain, the impact of porn on sexual satisfaction, and the link between porn and erectile dysfunction. (00:00) Intro (02:03) Dr Rina's Intro (03:31) Dr K's Intro (04:27) Erika's Intro (05:36) Does Porn Benefit Society? (10:25) Are We Desensitized by Porn? (11:34) How Porn Affects the Brain (13:10) What Is Death Grip Syndrome? (16:30) The Dopamine Effect of Porn (21:25) Is Porn Addictive? (23:42) Why People Feel Powerless Over Porn (25:19) Is There Good Porn and Bad Porn? (26:17) Has Porn Increased Erectile Dysfunction? (28:19) How Porn Impacts Motivation (33:02) How Porn Companies Exploit You (39:01) Is Sex Education Enough? (40:57) What Kind of Porn Does Erika Make? (44:19) What’s Better for Relationships: No Porn or Porn? (45:48) How to Remove Porn Stigma (49:51) The Rise of Erotic Audio (50:41) Should Porn Be Banned on Social Media? (53:50) Why Social Media Is Full of Porn (54:37) Should We Warn People About Porn? (01:00:57) Do We Need a Purpose to Quit Porn? (01:03:49) How to Talk to Kids About Porn (01:08:57) Does Porn Violence Reflect Audience Demand? (01:18:40) Is Softcore Porn a Gateway to Hardcore Porn? (01:20:29) The One Script for Men (01:22:24) Why Porn Shouldn’t Be Free (01:24:26) Why NoFap Is a Bad Idea (01:36:01) Is Porn Replacing Real Relationships? (01:39:12) Would We Have Better Relationships Without Porn? (01:42:08) What Did People Do Before Porn? (01:46:21) The Future of Porn and Tech (01:53:34) Why Negative Reinforcement Fails (01:58:40) Are We Losing Control to Our Impulses? (02:01:21) Is There Such a Thing as Too Much Porn? (02:01:59) How to Improve the Porn Industry (02:04:30) How Porn Ads Affect Us (02:05:31) How Porn Changes Body Image (02:09:29) How Long Should Sex Last? (02:11:37) Do We Need More Realistic Porn? (02:14:21) Would Erika’s Business Be More Successful if It Reflected Society? (02:17:15) Closing Statements (02:20:20) Guests' Final Question Follow Dr Alok: Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/QkWFeh2aNNb Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/99yMxjXaNNb Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/AURhxMZaNNb Follow Dr Rena: Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/gsYkVXjbNNb Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/i7nzpF4aNNb Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/FvsFnF7aNNb Follow Erika: Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/nrW9dggbNNb Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/DftilqabNNb Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/agzFiZcbNNb Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb

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0:00.0	This has never happened before today. We have three experts in their field with three different opinions
0:06.3	debating the subject of porn. This is the first time I've gone on porn hub at work
0:11.8	In one corner we have Dr. Rina Malik, the sex scientist helping millions of couples enhance their sex lives.
0:18.0	In the other corner we have Dr. Kaye.
0:20.0	The psychiatrist specializing in helping people with addictions to pornography and more.
0:25.0	Who is up against Erica Lusts who runs a large pornographic production company?
0:29.0	No one can sit on the fence here is pawn a benefit to people and society.
0:34.0	Definitely and especially for people who haven't really had that right to pleasure to
0:39.6	understand their sexuality.
0:41.6	But I think what we're clearly seeing is a trend of it being damaging.
0:45.4	Let me just share with you all what I'm afraid of.
0:47.8	It is doing way more through the rain than we ever realized.
0:51.2	So the first thing that we know is that.
0:53.7	But there's data to suggest that couples that use pornography
0:57.6	together have better sexual encounters
1:00.6	and women who use pornography have better sexual satisfaction rates.
1:05.0	And remember that women's sexuality has been so much about pleasing others.
1:10.0	And you see it with an orgasm gap.
1:12.0	But a devil's advocate would say that there is significant and you see it where the Orga has some gap.
1:12.6	But my devil's advocate would say that there is a significant number of women
1:16.1	interested in looking a certain way that they're often seeing on pornography.
1:20.3	That's harmful.
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