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The Daily Stoic

The Better You Get, The Less You Care…

The Daily Stoic

Daily Stoic | Backyard Ventures

Education, Daily Stoic, Stoic, Ryan Holiday, Self-improvement, 694393, Stoic Philosophy, Business, Society & Culture, Stoicism, Philosophy

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2020

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

“Whether it’s a great athlete or a great comedian, the truth is the same. The better they get, the less they care about results. That’s not to say they don’t care about winning, or about success—of course they do—it’s that the longer you do something, the closer you get to mastery, the less external results matter in terms of measuring progress.”

Ryan discusses why you should strive to measure progress internally, rather than externally, on today’s Daily Stoic Podcast.

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0:00.0

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today.

0:12.0

Welcome to the Daily Stoke. For each day, we read a short passage designed to help you cultivate the strength, insight, wisdom necessary for living good life.

0:22.0

Each one of these passages is based on the 2000-year-old philosophy that has guided some of history's greatest men and women. For more, you can visit us at DailyStoke.com.

0:36.0

The better you get, the less you care. Whether it's a great athlete or a great comedian, the truth is the same, the better they get the less they care about results.

0:46.0

Let's not to say they don't care about winning or about success. Of course they do. It's that the longer you do something, the closer you get to mastery, the less external results matter in terms of measuring progress.

0:57.0

The comedian Dave Chappelle has talked about how he hardly even cares about the crowd anymore, and definitely not the money.

1:04.0

What matters to him is doing the thing at getting closer to perfecting his craft, even if it's in ways that the audience can't even notice.

1:12.0

Early on in a career because we don't know much about it or ourselves, we use proxies to measure ourselves. We care about the critics or we care about stats or we care about getting this honor or that one.

1:23.0

But the better we get, the more it becomes clear to us how little control we have over those things. The more experience we get, the more it is evident how little our best work actually correlates with getting those external achievements.

1:35.0

As Marcus really writes, ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do. Self-indulgence means tying it to things that happen to you.

1:45.0

But real success, real mastery, real sanity, that he says comes only by tying it to your own actions.

1:53.0

The better you get, the more you are able to tie your identity to the only thing that matters according to the Stoics, your own choices, your own work, your own judgment, and everything else, better you get.

2:04.0

The less it matters.

2:07.0

Hey, it's Ryan. Look, our new year, new year challenge is on sale now. It starts January 1st, which means you have to sign up now to join it.

2:16.0

You can't put this off. Marcus really says, you could be good today instead. You choose tomorrow. People put these things off.

2:21.0

So let's stop procrastinating. Let's do this challenge together. You get a whole bunch of awesome stuff. You get 21 custom challenges, almost a book's worth a new content.

2:30.0

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2:40.0

We'd love to have you. You can sign up now at dailystoic.com slash challenge. You'll be doing it alongside me and thousands of other Stoics. It's our best thing we do every year. People love it.

2:51.0

We can't wait to have you sign up at dailystoic.com slash challenge, but there's not much time left. Don't delay. It starts in January 1st. You can't do it after that. No exceptions. I'll see you on the other side.

3:05.0

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3:18.0

American born businessman George Cohan, the founder of McDonald's Canada, was never satisfied with the status quo. Throughout his career, George was always searching for new ways to innovate and revolutionize the way he did business.

3:31.0

At McDonald's, that innovative spirit let him to do something truly extraordinary. Hi, I'm Lindsey Graham, host of Wondering Show Business Movers. We tell the true stories of the business leaders who risked it all, the critical moments that define their journey and the ideas that transformed the way we live our lives.

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