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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

The Best Way to Encourage Toddler Manners

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2020

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

A parent is concerned that her 2.5-year-old won’t say hello or goodbye to adults, including people he’s familiar with like neighbors and teachers. This mom says that she's tried to encourage her son's manners through modeling. She also once coaxed him to say goodbye to his teacher, but he refused. Since that time, he's become even more resistant and sometimes yells at people not to talk to him. At this point, she says, “It would even be fine if he ignored people" rather than yelling. She’s hoping Janet has some insight into what’s going on with her son and how she can help him get in the habit of politely greeting adults. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books. Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

My favorite thing to hear as I'm wrapping up an extensive consultation or a group session

0:05.4

with parents is when they say, now I can't wait to see my child and trial this out.

0:11.8

The secret to finding more ease and joy in caring for our children is a perspective shift.

0:17.0

It's about the way we see our children and understand our role in their lives.

0:21.5

And unfortunately, quick tips and strategies and sound bites, they can't make this shift

0:25.9

for us.

0:26.9

We need something thorough.

0:27.9

We need the whole picture.

0:29.6

I've created the resource that will give you that.

0:32.0

The No Bad Kids Master Course.

0:34.7

You can check out all the details at nobadkidscourse.com.

0:38.9

Hi, this is Janet Landsbury.

0:43.9

Welcome to Unruffled.

0:45.9

Today I'm responding to a question I received on Instagram about a toddler who is not saying

0:52.2

hello and goodbye to adults and this parent wants to encourage that.

0:57.8

She's getting concerned now because he has started not only refusing to say hello or

1:04.6

goodbye, but shouting out things to people that are saying hello or goodbye to him.

1:11.4

So I'm going to offer some suggestions that I hope are helpful not only for this specific

1:16.4

situation, but that also reflect the essence of the respectful approach that I teach and

1:25.2

clarifies what I mean when I talk about raising our children with respect and trust and

1:32.8

empathy.

1:35.0

Okay, here's the message I received.

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